If some guy is asking you out on a date -- is it more important the particular guy that is asking you out, or the way he asks you out? What is more important to your saying yes?
2007-11-18 10:08:05 · 36 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It used to be how when I was young and stupid, and then as I got older, it became who.
2007-11-19 05:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lady M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 11:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, it's the way he says it because there are some ways were you just CAN'T say no, like when they go through a lot of trouble just to ask you out or something then it's literally IMPOSSIBLE!! this happens to me a lot, and then the guy doesn't matter, i figure it's not costing me anything to give him a chance. If the way he asked sucked bad, then i take a good look at the person and decide from there...
2007-11-18 10:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that the guy is important first. A great date with someone that you are not really into-is not fun. I would rather spend time with someone that I really like as a person.
2007-11-18 10:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by MISS PHILLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are both equally important. If I'm completely not attracted to a guy, it doesn't matter how he approaches me, it's going to be a no. But if a guy I was extremely attracted to approached me in a bad way, I would say no also.
2007-11-18 10:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to be interested in the first place, in whomever is asking me out on a potential date. However, if the guy went about it in a rude or stupid way, I'd lose interest real fast!
2007-11-18 10:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely the guy, I can laugh it off if the particular guy didn't ask me out in a cute way...but if a guy that I don't like asks me out in a cute way I am less likely to give a favorable answer
2007-11-18 10:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kate S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The particular guy is important.
I was asked out buy a guy who was really nice, and wanted to take me shopping while we were out on the date.
I turned him down because I just wasn't attracted to him. I didn't want to waste his time, unless he was willing to put all feelings aside and just be friends.
I just wasn't feeling him like that.
Definitely the guy :~)
2007-11-18 10:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a guy you like, it doesn't matter as long as he makes a decent attempt, such as taking you to a good movie and dinner instead of mcdonalds.
If it's a guy you don't like, how he asks you is much more important.
2007-11-18 10:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lsg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a little bit of both.
i mean, it compleately matters who it it, cause
if a guy you dont like asks you out in a really nice way
it doesnt mean your going to say yes,
but if a guy you do like asks you out in a rude manner
you wont say yes either, its a turn off.
now the idea that a guy you like asking you out politely, or at least showing respect towards you, that will get a yes
2007-11-18 10:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who. If I don't like him and don't have the intention to, why would I say yes? I said no to about 7 dudes last year because I didn't like them ((well I kinda did for one, but I wasn't and still am not looking for a relationship))
2007-11-18 10:11:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋