So, I'm in a relationship with this guy a year older than me, and we've only really hooked up three times before.
He's pretty much a sloppy kisser, and I don't know what to do.
I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't know what to do or say!
I try to close my mouth more but he just like envolops my entire mouth into his when I close it more... it's quite unpleasent, and I end up having to wipe my mouth a lot.
Also, he sticks his tounge in and just keeps it there and wiggles it around... it's weird, because I don't do that and when I close, I just get his tounge.
So, does anyone have any ideas to help stop this? Or anything I should say or do to make him calm down a bit?
Thanks! You're all WAY lifesavers!
2007-11-18 09:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always bad news to find out someone kisses like this! What i've had to do once was tell the guy "hey, tone it down a bit on the kissing, close your mouth a little more. I don't feel like we're matching up right when we kiss." I kinda had to show him what I meant, but he took the hint fast. You've already tried leading him with your actions, but if he didn't pick up on that and you plan on being with the guy for awhile, it's time for the 'uncomfortable talk'.
2007-11-18 09:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience the first kiss is the measure of the relationship. I have never had success with fish mouths and the only fella I ever really loved kissed like a knight in shining armor who was leaving his princess for the crusades, soul full and heart aching. But then again the angel kisser broke my heart so go with your gut.
Maybe in a sensual growl you could whisper to him,"don't consume me in one bite, let's go soft and slow."
2007-11-18 17:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Princessa Macha Venial 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you want, which is to slow down and relax a bit. Tell him that you not trying to hurt his feelings, your just trying to make him a better kisser. Me and my girl dont have this problem because I'm a great kisser....lol..., but maybe you can teach him how to give you great kisses with less spit......i hope this advice is helpful to you....
2007-11-18 17:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing something that turns you off I would have to find someone else. Maybe you should just tell him you don't enjoy that then say try this. Show him what you want or he will never now. COMMUNICATION you need that more than anything.
2007-11-18 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by tracycarter23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL how old are you? I don't think you like him enough to be swapping spit with him if you want closed mouth kisses.
2007-11-18 17:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk about this one. maybe one time you could just do what he does. haha sounds crazy, but if you just really really go for it, all aggressive and such, maybe he'll get it. also, after some time of kissing just look at him and be like "you are crazy!!" in a playful way. idk... haha. i would go with trying to be more like that than he is just one time, and hopefully he'll get it.
2007-11-18 17:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by guitarchick252 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kiss him how u like it then when ur done just tell him that how u like to kiss!!!! then of course ride him all night long-- DUGH.
2007-11-18 17:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by .dont be desperate. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him! - he needs to learn without his toungue - then show him with yours how its done ; )
2007-11-18 17:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"bite his tongue"
lol, i was literally thinking the same thing!
2007-11-18 17:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by !!indiepants!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure
2007-11-18 17:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋