Should my friend feel cheap and easy?

Question

My friend told me a guy took her to a cheap hourly hotel.She doesnt know whether to feel bad for him b/c he couldnt afford a reputable hotel or feel dirty and "trampy" b/c she put herself in this situation.I say she should feel both. Do you think she should continue talking to this guy? She is pretty but I guess she does need more confidence and self respect

Answer 1

If your both thinking the problem has to do with how attractive she is, your both doomed to stupid, shallow relationships for the rest of your life, so guess what? DOESN'T F'IN MATTER!!! Unless you teach her better what it is that makes great relationship, well even if she found one that would give it to her, he'd leave becuase she's so f'in boring. So ALOT of work needs to be done on her, and you, for not smacking her dumb-butt for hoping more for herself. I could go on and on, on this, but the point remains, you still think relationships have something to do with attraction. You and her do each other a favour, go rent ANY Disney movie, and watch it SERIOUSLY, becuase that way you can atleast get the point, BOTH OF YOU, that attraction isn't the point, and connection is everything. That unless you have deep relationships, don't expect anything deep out of them. As far as her feelings go, their TRUE! Such as feelings are, she's failing herself, and your just watching.....