GUYS : How do you do it ?!?!?!?

Question

i am a senior in high school living in the u.s.a
ive been having troubles approaching my crushes lately.

can anyone help me ?!? why cant i just make the first move...its like i know i can do it, but when the opportunity arises, I STILL BACK DOWN. HOW CAN I TAKE THE RISK AND PREVENT MYSELF FROM BACKING DOWN ?!?

Answer 1

Its easy. Say "Hello" To A Girl And When She says Hello Back, Tell Her You Want To Know How You Can Tell When A Girl Likes You Because You Arent Good At Body language. thats A Ice breaker..She Will See You Are Sensitive And Start giving You The same Signals She's Talking About.

Answer 2

I'd sell off him asap. If he likes an extra woman and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and difficult paintings. You MUST see this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your younger, i am guessing, you should not also be due to the fact that a SERIOUS courting that's going to rationale you lack of confidence. Have a laugh, do not emerge as overly invested on this, WHAT? you can not flirt? Move on, the writing is at the wall and it spells quandary. Do your self a want and reduce the man free, whether it is destined to be, it's going to run it is path and he's going to be again. But why you might take him again best you'll be able to reply.

Answer 3

Consider the odds.....they all can't say NO......it's the law of averages. Keep flipping that coin til you either get head or tail....which ever you prefer....if only that coin could stand on edge....but anyhow. You just have to go for it...the more you try the more you learn a solid approach. The first rejections always the worst after that.....you can pretty much just say f*ck it....a good approach i've always found is...don't ask if she'd go out with you...just tell her she should go out with you...don't say"would you wanna go out to dinner with me?"...so cheesy.......say"You need to let me take you out to dinner sometime"and before she has time to answer follow up with"better yet let me take you out this weekend"....even if she's not free...chances are she'll set a date for you to take her out...it's worked so many times for me at least...good luck kiddo

Answer 4

You need to start a general conversation with the lady and maybe say something humorous then as you feel the relaxation come then casually ask your question.The lades like humor and the best way to start a conversation is to start casual.So when you see her take in a deep breath and count to 10 walk up to her smile ,make eye contact and work your magic.You can do it just let it roll.Good Luck

Answer 5

Well the only thing I can tell you is to look at it as a risk vs reward situation. If you never try you'll never get anywhere. If you're crush isn't a close friend or anything then you have nothing to lose long term if she doesn't return the sentiment.

Answer 6

This is to simple. Just do it. Walk up to who ever he is, and don't feel anything. Feel nervous. Thats it, just feel nervous. It's going to happen even if i tell you not to feel nervous, so if your goal is to feel nervous, then it work. And check this out: he's probabaly in the same possition you are in and doesnt know what its like to approach girls. Trust me, I'm 25 and i dont even have down yet. So just go up to him and say him. He wont even notice your nervousness. Just don't speak in all caps because he might not be able to read you well. j/k Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

Honesty seems to work best for me. I just open up and tell the guy that I am totally nervous and feel a bit awkward, but I really wanted to talk to him.

For whatever reason, guys seem to like vulnerability in women.

Answer 8

Just remember, they most likely feel as uncomfortable as you do. Now, if you're going up to them, then backing off, that's just going to make them feel a whole lot worse that you are feeling.

Answer 9

Well your a senior so you better act fast. You have to realize that it's now or never. Just feel confident and do it.

Answer 10

its all about convincing urself ur confident even if ur not, im really not confident about myself but i jst tell myself that i am at times jst t trick myself into doin things like this

check out th book "The Game" by neil strauss its full off useful ways to initiate conversations etc with people

http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738/ref=pd_bbs_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1195401831&sr=8-1