There's this junior at my school and he has a gf, but she doesn't go to our school.
He seems really sweet. He is always iming me and stuff. He hugs me goodbye and he told me that he really likes me and that I someone he would want to be with but he can't do anything about it cause he has a gf. He told me that he never breaks up with him gfs. He waits for them to break up with him. He knows I really like him.
He is always like, you are so cute your awesome your cool and all this other stuff.
Is he playing me? I think he's keeping me "warm" in case he ever breaks up with his present gf.
What should I do??? He's confusing me!!
2007-11-18 01:53:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing you.
He is keeping you in his back pocket. Once his gf breaks up with him, then he will turn to his back up gf (you).
Do you really want to date this guy, knowing that he can do the same thing again (this time waiting for you to break up with him so that he can go for his next flavor of the month)?
2007-11-18 02:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by delilah28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah - he's playing you and it sounds like you're eating it up. If you know he has a girlfriend, drop him. Tell him that you don't want to start anything with him. And besides - if he's doing this to you, how do you know he's not doing the same thing to other girls in school or out of school. Use your head sweetie and tell him to move on. There will be other boys for you to give your heart to. Don't be fooled by the sweet talk.
2007-11-18 02:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Paul L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there are too many fish in the sea, so move on. This guy likes to have his cake and eat it too! You don't want to play second best all the time. Go out there and get somebody who is truly available and wants to be serious. Girlfriend, life is too short! Holla!
2007-11-18 02:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by twilight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he has told so much when he mentioned he never breaks with his girlfriends. I think it would be good to wait for him just a little bit and see how things go. Don't put so much energy into this and keep your eyes open, because the right one could be just around the corner,and don't let him confuse you.
2007-11-18 02:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by new MAC-er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so playing u
like u said... he's keeping u "warm" like the alternative if he breaks up with his gf which is so not right
stop hanging out with him
i know it's hard cuz u like him but u seriously need to find someone else or just forget about him before he hurts ur feelings majorly which he will
hang out with your friends and find some other guy that doesn't have a gf
2007-11-18 01:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh yes he is. And your def right about keeping ya "warm". If he really liked you he would break up with his girlfriend. None of this "waiting for them to do it". I would just stay friends with this flirt. Think about it for the g/f too, what would you do if you found out if your b/f was telling a girl he thinks shes cute, awesome, cool, etc and hugging her. He isn't a goodboyfriend, if you haven't figured that out yet. Just keep it as buds with this one. You will find someone better.
2007-11-18 01:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't go for it. It is a recipe to get hurt. You deserve better then to be put on the back burner or on the side. If he really liked you, he WOULD break up with his gf. He just wants it both ways.
2007-11-18 01:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's doing just what you said. keepin you warm.
just a tip, if he's tellin you how cute you are and how he likes you while he still has a girlfriend but at the same time won't break up with her, shows how imature but thoughtful he is.
ask him what the point of having a girlfriend is , if he's gonna be hittin on you.
good luck girl
2007-11-18 01:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just answered your own question, "keeping me 'warm' in case..." if he really liked you he'd already break up with his current gf. i remember a while back this boy liked me but he had a gf and i told him i didn't wanna go out with him cuz he had a gf and he asked me "will you go out with me if i break up her?" i never gave him an answer and he did break up with her but i never said yes to him lol he's still trying to get with me to this day and that happened 3-4 yrs ago. so what i'm trying to say to you is that if he's not willing to break up with his gf for you then he's not worth it.
2007-11-18 02:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you BIG time. and YOU fell for it.
He likes his girlfriend more, because hes with her. Hes not planning to break up with her. And even thought, they break up and he goes with you. He'll likely tio cheat on you too.
Who knows how many girls he said that to?
2007-11-18 01:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋