hes a player he knows it.. he can get any girl he wants.. he hits and quits it.. and calls me sometimes, but only when he wants it... he says he wants a challenge.. but how do i give him a challenge and make him want me?
2007-11-18 00:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by ily_______&?; 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol sluts
got to love them
lol
2007-11-18 00:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont let him hit it the player will look elsewhere, he may try and he will most likely get it from you whenever and wherever he wants.. its always HIS WAY. You cannot change a player. If you do you will be his main woman and he will have 3 on the side who hes screwing. These types are impossible. You will not win this game. I've been there, done that and these guys are just good for 'some fun'. not real relationship material. Even if you do win him you will be sharing him with other women.
I went out with a guy just like this... He would come over and call whenever he wanted, come to the house at 2 in the morning on school nights just to get some as*. He had women on the side trying to fight me. He will never go out of his way for you or do anything romantic. If youre lucky you might get his jacket or some other little trinket and it will feel like a prize cause he dosent do anything. If he calls you his woman one night you will be thrilled cause hes such a player and hottie you feel like youre getting an honor upon you. But its all bs. No substance. THEY ARE IMPOSSIBLE.
You get nothing but sex from him. When he shows you an ounce of affection its a high or a rush and a challenge to try to 'win' him over but he will not have any of that. You already know where you stand with this guy. I know its hard to keep away cause its like a drug.
2007-11-18 00:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too late. He already hit it. Are you nuts or just lack the respect for yourself. Your a player yourself so go hit another if you really have no respect for yourself. Have a real relationship or they will all fail in the future.
Good luck.
2007-11-18 00:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by joecool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Be a challenge. Guys love that. How? Don't give him too much interest or don't screw him too soon but don't be a tease. In other words, don't be too easy.
2007-11-18 01:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Despair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him hit it.....
Beat a player at his own game..
It will be hard.. so your going to have to make sure you dont back down on your standards.
2007-11-18 00:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit like asking how you can be a worm on a hook. Why would you want that?
2007-11-18 00:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play 'the catch me if u can' game with him till u can :-D
2007-11-18 00:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋