Is my girlfriend ready for a relationship or not?

Question

kk well my problem is that i am feeling so sad and im not sure why.

it kinda started a few weeks ago cause i honestly believe that me and my girlfriend are ready to go the next level (not sex). we havnt done anything and its been just under half a year. im not one of those guys to pressure, in fact ive been told by may women that they wish their bf was like me. anyway i thought we had the trust and comfort to do stuff. she disagrees.

there is also the fact that i undetrstand most women except my gf. i never seem to know what she is thinking or feeling.

and then there is also the fact that she wont drink more than 1 drink unless she is not with me (and its cause she thinks that what happens in movies is true)

and we have the same friends. most of them are women. every month my gf organizes a girls night and it bothers me because she is saying every friend of hers except me can go and also she gets really excited about this night and never gets excited like that for out dates

i communicate and an open with her a lot but she has trouble doing so. we go on a lot of dates and things like that (we spend good time together). also i have been told by her, several of her best friends and several of my close female friends that i am the perfect boyfriend. my porblem is that i love her more than anything, but im starting to feel that she isnt tready for a relationship.

please answer the following questions...more advice is welcome

why doesnt she trust me?

why isnt she comfortable with me?

is these valid 'eveidence' or am i blowing this out of porportion?

does it seem like she is not ready for a relationship?

if she isnt, what can i do?

Answer 1

I would say chill out dude. You are so overreacting.

Answer 2

well,
talk to her
her friends
or just leave her.

i dont think she is ready for anything, and not being mean , its either she isnt comfortable with you, or she is just a lesbian.

cos it looks like she only cares about her girls. and im not being sexist, its just my opinion.

find another girl. shes not worth ur time.

BUT

its just not her fault, it looks like ur pressuring her thats why shes staying away from you. hang out with some guys and let her have some fun. maybe you would have some more fun if you gave her some space . then do something

Answer 3

Son, are you thinking that you are in the clinical psychologist room?

Answer 4

You seem too clingy and yes, you are pressuring her, by your own words.