What is the difference in making love and having sex?? How can you tell which one you are truly doing? And does it matter? Or should it all just be called sex....
2007-11-17 15:51:37 · 13 answers · asked by B@rB!e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not questioning whether or not it is LOVE or SEX for ME....i am merely just asking others what they feel the difference is....I know what I have is love...not lust...and not just sex
2007-11-17 16:00:30 · update #1
there is a big difference --- sex is just about enjoying the act ---- making love is increasing the bond emotional/physical/spiritual between two people --- sex is or may be very intense and then its over --- making love starts outside the bedroom and can last a lifetime ---- have fun
2007-11-17 15:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL sry, but....
If I like someone enough, that we can build a mutual respect and trust, it will be love. However, you can have sex within love which I'd prefer the most.
However,
Sex and love are two different things. The biggest reason is cause "Sex" cant be identified as a type of relationship, LOL!
It'd be weird saying "I sex you" or "im in sex with you" XD
2007-11-18 00:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference is that when u make love u love the person but if u just have sex it means this could be a one night stand but in the end ur still having sex
2007-11-17 23:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a physical attraction and emotional attraction for something whichout having sex. Sex is just well, something that is as a result on love. Many people have different philosophies. Most guys want to get sex first before they love. The women want love and will use sex to get it.
2007-11-17 23:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by computer whiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the same no matter who you do it with but making love is so much more special and means a lot, or should mean a lot more to the two people involved.
2007-11-17 23:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by dantrag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just having sex is lust and lust uses and takes its never satisfied....if you dont give it what it wants it will seek it out eleswhere
Love gives and its most satisfying
If a guy wants you for sex he really doesnt put you first if a man loves you he will want to give you the world
sounds like if your questioning it ,it must not be love
also love waits is a true saying
2007-11-17 23:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cheeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my fiancees words " having sex is just shoving it in there and moving around a bit and making love is....I don't know how to describe it, loving the person and its much more than sex "
Lol i asked him on the phone and thats what i got.
2007-11-17 23:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by ellielovesjoey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't good without love
2007-11-17 23:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the difference is when you make love is it with the person that has captured your heart and mind sex is just bumping uglies no affection
2007-11-17 23:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Gordon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are making sex with just one it is love unles it is lust.
2007-11-17 23:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋