They can be drop-dead gorgeous, and I just get into my shell and tense up and I shut the hell up.
Why? Any cure?
Maybe I feel like I'm going to screw it up. Or it seems totally wrong; against my view of the way things should be or something (where in the way things should be, mabye I'm not supposed to be attractive to women in that way).
Aaaahhhhhhhh!!!!! lol.
I think I'm going to go move to Siberia and chop wood for a living. And not have to put up with this agony.
lol.
2007-11-17 15:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not saying it doesn't make me feel good. It's a wonderful feeling ... /afterward/. ... [rolls eyes]
2007-11-17 15:14:10 · update #1
That's actually kind of cute. I'd prefer a guy who wasn't a social flirt with all the girls. Just be nice back and then eventually ask the girl out who you find interest in. If you'ren ot interested in the others, just be polite and friendly (as much a as you can without dying inside LOL).
2007-11-17 15:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is that same thing as standing in front of a camera, or being on stage and having to sing. You have to throw yourself into the ring and give it a try. The more you do it, the more comfortable you are going to be at it.
We all have flaws but whatever you feel your flaws might be, do not seem to be obvious or existent to the women who want to flirt with you. What harm is there to flirt back with women you don't know. If you are never going to see them again, does it really matter if you mess up? Do you have fun flirting with the women that you do know? If so, then just think of all the fun that you are missing out on by not giving it a try with those you don't know.
2007-11-17 23:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Trevor McKinney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough experiance! Talk with people you don't know. Just small talk with someone of the same sex. Then do the same w/ sombody of the opposite sex. (Whether you plan on dating them or not!)
This will boost your social skills to the pooint that you will no longer shy away from those you want to date!
2007-11-17 23:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by SARswimmer95 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. You might even get to know someone better that way.
2007-11-17 23:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anuj S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're shy. Social anxiety. I think it's cute
2007-11-17 23:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋