i am not trying to have sex i just want for him to at least freaking kiss me!
2007-11-17 15:01:55 · 36 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're tired of waiting, make the first move yourself. If he doesn't like that, maybe he's gay.
2007-11-17 15:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by robby's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get their kiss on a first date, some get on a second, or third date. Kissing always happen before the boyfriend/girlfriend stage.
There could be 3 reasons why your boyfriend isn't making the first move:
1. He just not that into you. You may claim he's your boyfriend- he'll stick around just because he can't find anyone better
2. Or your relationship with this "Mr. Shy" has just starting out
3. If he feels STRONGLY for you, he'd definetly wouldn't resist kissing you. Don't ask a guy to kiss you if he hasn't kiss you yet. If you do, he'll do so out of your request, not from his heart. If you don't get ur kiss soon, leave him and move on!
2007-11-17 15:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up really nice, wear your hair up, when you do your make up wear so me lipgloss with good flavor in it so your lips look more appealing and go to the movies. Make a lot of eye contact and may be he will take a hint, if not then you are going to have to make the first move.
2007-11-17 15:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chulis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are scared to death of girls at first. You will most probbably have to make the first move. Guys have a hard time ''reading'' what girls want, and they are terified of looking stupid. So, when the time is right, tell him ''its ok to kiss me, if you want to''. He will appreciate the green light.
2007-11-17 15:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you hug him, slowly back away from it and you'll be face to face and gently move in on him, if he backs away, stop what you're doing. If he wants to kiss you, he'll move in the rest of the way and kiss you.
2007-11-17 15:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your brea6h stinks and that's why he don't want to kiss you or you need to make the first move and kiss him. If you come on to strong you may scare him away but he might like it if you come on too strong. try it out.
2007-11-17 15:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by muggimoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you create an awkward moment like when you both just fell down on the bed or in a pile of leaves or both rolling around laughing it can happen. you have to make it very very safe for him. you might have to say something. don't make him take all the responsibility for everything. if you want something, consider indicating that to him.
2007-11-17 15:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are clueless they never get hints.........EVER (well somtimes) so you dont have to make the first move but draw lots of attension to you lips, and sit close to him or hold his hand put your head on his shoulder if you reeeeally want him to kiss you, you have to do somthing to make it happen, he might be afraid that if he trys to kiss you, you might not want to do the same thing and im sure that would be embarassing for him!
2007-11-17 15:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by floflo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could try making the first move
try asking
look in to his eyes for a bit without speaking
2007-11-17 15:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Christianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole, half of these answers currently are from women. and god are they freaking smart. im a guy and i wudnt make the first move because i wud be afraid of what my partner might think. MAKE THE FIRST MOVE GIRL!~
2007-11-17 15:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by nandayoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just get really close to him and if its the right moment go 90% of the way and DONT CLOSE YOUR EYES until your lips touch or are almost touching! If he doesnt just act like there was something on his face or something.
2007-11-17 15:06:39 · answer #11 · answered by tankers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋