Getting threatened?

Question

I'm getting threatened over the internet that'll I'll get beaten up and my face will get smashed ect at school on Monday.

I'm really scared to go to school.
I just don't know what to do with my life.
I want to cry on whats going on lately.

I don't know what to do on the current situation.
I don't want to tell because it'll ruin my reputation and even more people will hate me.

And obviously I can't fight him back since hes like 10x bigger then me.

I don't feel safe anymore.

I don't know what to do anymore.

Yes Scene girl I do Play Habbo lol.

Anyways,
I have not done ANYTHING to him at all.

Hes been harassing me countless times calling me gay, fag ect.
He said I'm going to be dead sh*t and I don't get why I can't be in a world with people not harassing me.

Answer 1

You need to talk to someone near to you - parents, teacher, counselor, law enforcement - anyone. If you don't feel safe - you need to involve someone else. My 13 year old son says to go to school and stay close to a teacher during the day and to tell the principal or a teacher you trust. They may be able to intervene without letting him know that you are the one that told. If this kid is making these kid of threats, he's probably done something to someone else as well. or they can say that they received notification from some online watchdog service monitoring for violence?
Making threats to physically harm someone is illegal - help is out there if you ask for it.
I remember having situations like that when I was growing up - and I remember going to school with my stomach hurting - and miserable knowing I was going to get my butt kicked - in my situation I stood up to her and she didn't know what to do about that, and a teacher found out this girl was trying to fight me and she got suspended.
Please don't think you are alone or that no one understands - there are so many people out there that have been through the same thing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck!!

Answer 2

O.K. little Dude. Here's your choices. #1.Pray he's as big of a liar as he is BIG! #2. Tell someone who can help. #3. Get the crap beat out of you. #4. Gain a foot or two (and a few pounds) before Monday.

What sounds logical to you? I'd go for #2. The people at your school are there for just such things. That's their job, let them do it. It's obvious you can't handle this bully alone. Don't be ashamed of the fact that you can't deal with this alone. The only reason for you to feel shame is if you do nothing about it and he beats you up. Talk to your parents if you don't want to go to the people at school. That's their job too. Good luck.

Answer 3

You know times have changed, I had my bully's in school so I know what you going through, but the things about bully they won't stop until you make a stand against them. First I would say start jogging with ankle weight it will help you to run faster and find a steep hill and run as fast up that hill 3x a week start there first. Next learn some type of self defense boxing the martial arts go to a gym you have to make a stand or it will be a long school year. and last learn to talk your way out It work for me because my bully's were stupid. But it all change when I got into the martial arts because they know I've gotten good so better to befriend me then to be in the way of a very jaw crushing blow

Answer 4

Hey my friend,

Though I don't quite believe what you got threatened will come true, in my opinion, you should tell either your parents or at least your close friends about this issue. This is not a funny thing to get embarrassed about. This is an important thing needs reporting. You should report if you think the possibility of it happens is high. Listen, your reputation won't be ruined by such stupid bully at school :I

Answer 5

I heard about this happening quite a bit lately. You really need to tell somebody to get some support. If you cannot tell your parents, tell your friends or your friends parents. If you do not go to school he will only get more pumped up over the fact that he scared you. Print the threats he is making to you and keep them somewhere at home. Do you have a older brother or sister you can tell.

My daughter was being threatened on the bus everyday on the way home from school when she was in 9th grade When she told me about it, I had her call the girl at home and tell her she was on her way over. If she wanted to fight, she would be more than happy to go at it away from the school. She told her to get ready for the biggest whip butt she has ever had. We showed up at the girls house a few minutes later and she would not come outside. We stood outside calling her name and yelling for her to come out for about 15 minutes. She was just a big chicken who liked to threaten. She never bothered her again. Of course I would not have let my daughter fight this girl, if she would have come outside I would have taken over and made sure she knew she had better leave my kid alone.

I am not recommending you do this, but I am recommending that you tell your Mom or Dad. Let them know how you feel about telling on these kids. It is amazing what parents will do to keep their kids safe.

Answer 6

Gather a posse and deal with it. Did you do something wrong to the guy? I would tell, but that's just me. My friends and I followed a girl at the end of the day once, and she went to the principals office when she figured out what was going on. I'm glad she did, she didn't even deserve it. Not from me anyway.

Answer 7

Print out the threat and take it to your parents. Then file a police report. Go to school and ignore it. It's hard - bullying is tough to put up with, but Do Not Ever Keep Silent About It!

Answer 8

Where on the internet are you being threatened? Facebook? MySpace? These sites should have rules/guidelines that don't allow for that sort of thing. I know you don't want to tell, but you need to think about your safety. If the threats are serious, don't keep them to yourself. You NEED to get your parents, or another adult authority figure you can trust, involved. Good luck!!

Answer 9

Don't run scared, that's what they want. Don't get down either, we all go through hard times, but they do pass. Stick with a group of friends, safety in numbers! Be aware of your surroundings. If you need to, talk with your parents and/or teachers or school administrators. Good Luck!

Answer 10

You don't want to "tell" because it will ruin your reputation? You have the reputation of supporting criminal behavior?

Just send copies on to your friends telling them that you just want someone to know in case something happens. If you have even one real friend they'll stand up for you.