my best friend was telling me how last night she was on her way home from work and a guy stops in his car and waves at her. so she goes over to see and he asked what her name was and where she was going and she said home and he was like wheres ur man, and she said not here and she tried walking away but he kept telling her to come back and he told her that she was sexy and she said thank you and started walking away and he called her back again and he said how he wants to take her out sometime and was asking how old she was and she kept telling him No and he was like but ur so sexy and asked for her number and she told him that her phone was broken and she left. is this sexual harrasement? what do you think of this guy? did he really just want to go on a date or had other motives?
2007-11-17 14:52:56 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm thats what you call a creep
2007-11-17 14:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had other motives. If she didn't know the guy she should of never walked up to him especially at night. Walking up to guy in a car at night is almost telling him she's interested. No it's not sexual harassment. It probably be a one time thing. Tell her next time someone waves at her and before she thinks about walking up to someone she doesn't know she needs to think first. With all the kidnapping that going on that was stupid what she done. Don't do it again be safe.
2007-11-17 15:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to pick "Other Motives" for $1000, Alex.
Neither of you think this was creepy? Let me paint the picture had she climbed in the car with this guy; she would have become a horrible statistic. Either she would have been raped, murdered, or both. Let's say she gave him her phone number. Congratulations, you've just created a stalker.
The biggest hint in this scenario is that this guy wouldn't leave her alone when she tried to walk away. She said no and he wouldn't listen. I'm so glad your friend is okay and did not listen to this guy.
2007-11-17 15:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by dstluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not sexual harrasment but he sounds like he had some future motives besides dating I would think he's some type of rapest and why would your friend go up to a complete strangers car on the way home from work alone by herself thats not what you would call a smart idea he could have kidnapped her or something
2007-11-17 15:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by ~Shawty~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be considered sexual harassment considering he kept calling her sexy and that made her uncomfortable. She needed to just walk away from the start because he is up to no good and most likely wanted more than to just take her out.
2007-11-17 14:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Madison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No !!! He was trying to get a date.
Sexual harassment is usually done at the place a person works...either by a boss and or another employee.....Out on the street it's call try to pick up a chick....
and if she was not interested in the guy why did she keep walking back to him every time he called for her to come back...............He probably want to go out with her or at least get some action from her.....
2007-11-17 14:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sexual harassment unless she tells him clearly to stop. In this case it looks like she kept going back when he requested. Was he being socially appropriate? - No. Definitely not! A normal person would have picked up on that and backed off, but this guy was really coming on strong and probably didn't have much respect for her if he wasn't picking up on her cues.
2007-11-17 14:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap. I want to fcking slap ppl like that. In my book, yes that is sexual harrassment. He probably did have motives and if he didnt he was a dckwad. Tell your friend if she ever sees his face ever again to either 1.SLAP HIS MOFO FACE. 2.Call the cops on him. or 3. Take out your pocket knife stab him and jack his car.
ok maybe 3 was a little overboard but im serious about 1 and 2.
WARNING: SOMETHING COULD GO WRONG
2007-11-17 14:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by nandayoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His pathetic attempts to secure a date leading up to other ulterior motives was probably the case. Better she just walks away. Sounds like he was looking for a one night stand. Answer - yes, by definition he was harassing her.
2007-11-17 14:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by fla_dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is sexual harassment. She had many chances to leave and she didn't. He may have thought she was playing "hard to get" so he continued to "flirt" until she finally did walk away and he realized he strikeout. Just ignore people like him. You are lucky he didn't grab you and do something worse. Be careful out there.
2007-11-17 14:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by MiMarineMumma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is sexual harrasment because she isnot going to see him anymore. Right? SH is when a person knows where you lives, works, etc and is bothering the person on an on-going basis.
2007-11-17 14:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋