I cant let go of the wrong done to me...nor can I share it....nor does its effects leave me.....whom should I turn to?
2007-11-17 14:07:53 · 25 answers · asked by Asker_765 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You must forgive whoever did it to you , or it will consume you. Surrender your life and troubles to Jesus Chjrist and this wrong done to you will pale into insignificance compared to the joy you will receive as a follower of Jesus. Come to Christ.
2007-11-17 14:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive,I have learned its not a feeling,its an action.Forgiveness is not deserved it is granted by you for the person that does not deserve grace or mercy.If you do this you release the person fully,maybe they will change maybe they will not.But you will,your heart and person will feel free.Unforgiving is like a cancer to our own hearts and soul.Within your mind tell the person you forgive them,If you believe in God ask him to help you release this person and ask God to forgive the person as well as you for harboring hate or any other feelings you have.If it comes back you need to remind yourself you have forgiven this person.Jesus gave his life as a sacrifice for all humanity's sin.I do not know what this person did,it sounds very painful though,so when I need to forgive I always remember that I am not being asked to hang on a cross I'm only being required to not want any form of retaliation to the person,I free them from any sentence I may want for them.I am sorry you are suffering but this is the only thing I can tell you that helps me in the same situation.Be blessed and free Shalom
2007-11-17 22:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some will say turn to the church and find God, others will say find a good therapist. Maybe you should do both. If you are depressed and feeling suicidal you need to head to the hospital now. They can give you some medication to help ease your suffering until you are able to get the help you need. Stay at the hospital until you are absolutely sure you will not harm yourself. May you find peace.
2007-11-17 22:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by MOL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds dumb I know, but if you really have no one else to talk to, including God, Then pretend to talk to the other person. Letting it out will help. Say exactly what you feel and how they made you feel. Rant and rave in front of a mirror. You'll be surprised how relieving it is just to say it outloud. Then forgive and try to forget. It does work.
2007-11-18 00:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by dark bubble 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn to yourself and realize that resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping that it kills your enemies. Those who you resent have no ill effects from what happened, but you do and it's messing you up. Put it in the past and move on. Because life is never fair, become accustom to rolling with the punches. The one to turn to is yourself.
2007-11-17 22:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit...I'm surprised at all the great and caring answers you are being given here.....If I were to give you my advice I'd be repeating what you have already heard.....do know ...that the people that have answered you here ....did not do it for the 2 or the 10 pts....we all really did and do care....read the answers and do a combination that fits you...your going to be OK....and I know many of us will pray for you ....I will and I do care.....it really will get better....maybe not over night ....but in time......I'm praying for you now.
2007-11-17 23:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn to God.
You choose to forgive, regardless of the severity of the sin against you.
Your willingness to forgive is very important to God, as we see in Matthew 6:14-15. "For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
That couldn't be much clearer.
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Eph 4:32). "Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (Col 3:13).
The phrase, "as the Lord forgave you," suggests he expects you to forgive others to the same degree he forgave you — completely.
Forgiveness is about how you respond to your own sinful nature, because that is what gets hurt and responds with anger and other emotions.
2007-11-17 22:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are compounding your pain with unforgiveness...First,purpose in your heart and mind to forgive the offense, which alone will allieviate a great deal of your mental anguish....then allow time to heal the rest.
My personal advice is to turn to God...He will also forgive you of your sin against others.
2007-11-17 22:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by bonsai bobby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holding on to past wrongs does hurt. You do have to let go..Only you can do that. It isn't easy. I know..All you can do is move on. Make a new life. I would love to have the forgiveness of the Amish that went to the funeral of the man that killed their children..As they said, their children were with God..
2007-11-17 22:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by PROBLEM 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How are you doing right now? What is your body doing?
When you go over the hurt it returns, but how are you doing now? Stay in the present, when thoughts of the past come up, watch them pass.
2007-11-17 22:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋