theres this *** from my neighbor hood who used to mess with me a ton but i got bigger now he wont stop messign with my friend because hes small if i see him im gonna talk to him and if he says anthing im going to call him out he slike 5'4 and 160 im 5'11 and 130 and a blackbelt hes a punk and cant fight what sohuld i do?
2007-11-17 13:14:15 · 16 answers · asked by joeschmo932 1 in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
If you are really a BB than it is obvious what to do!
YOU DO NOT FIGHT. Having a BB gives you even more reason NOT to fight him and to speak with him against harming or harassing your friend. Sure it is ok to defend him and look out for him but do not start something only react or defend someone.
That should answer it all for you!! A BB will not seek out a fight but rather look for a way to avoid it in real life.
2007-11-17 13:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Legend Gates Shotokan Karate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fighting wont really solve anything but if it gets to the point where there may be no other alternative (if he starts pushing your friend around) and your friend seems scared and is clearly getting bullied then step in. Remember stepping in is different then plastering him with a side kick from the blind side. Just get between him and your friend and tell him to stop. If he backs off then leave it at that, but if he starts becoming violent towards you, use the self-defense you were taught : block, dodge, or sweep his legs out from under him. But, there is no reason to honestly use more force unless it is your life at stake. Remember that you will have an advantage over almost every single person that has never trained in a martial arts, wrestling, boxing etc. and most people will feel its time to quit if they were thrown to the ground or hit.
2007-11-17 13:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by 190E 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
black belt in what? tae kwon do won't help except (maybe) for kicks. Learn a couple throws and some submission holds (Brazilian Jujutsu/Judo). But he weighs more than you? You should watch your legs, because if he's lower than you too, he'll be going for a take-down if he has any clue what he's doing, so learn what a sprawl is, and put him in a submission hold (DON'T BREAK IT) after the sprawl. If he just goes for the face because he doesn't know $hit, then just roundhouse kick the knee (or a sweep kick, if you know how). Then, make sure you don't hurt him TOO bad so his mommy won't be pissed, and tell him off. Teach your friend some stuff too so he can beat the crap outta him too.
2007-11-17 13:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a kid, there was this older jerk who was in gangs and bullied me often, punching me in my stomach and slapping me. I hated him with a passion.
When I became an adult, I was walking through the hood after having gone to see some friends. As I come to the corner towards the bus stop, someone was walking quickly out of a store and crashed into me... he bounced off of me and collapsed but I caught him and helped him up. He was smaller than me and scrawny. As he gathered himself he looked at me and... it was him. The jerk who bullied me.
His whole demeanor changed. He trembled. I looked him in the eyes and he nearly crapped his pants. No gang, and I wasn't the little fat kid anymore. I was Bujutsuka... Yudansha.
I just walked away. He was pathetic. It was my victory.
It was also a humbling experience for me.
I realized the ability I attained by my training.
Never saw him again and I am sure he thought about what he had done.
That was enough for me.
2007-11-17 16:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Darth Scandalous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh You could challenge him to a fight in a boxing ring with a ref. Go to a gym that has this and duel it out. Hopefully you can f*** him up a bit so that he wont bother you again. If not get a restraining order against him at your local PD. (im serious this way he cant bother you again if he does he goes to jail). In any event martial artist do not fight cause they feel the need to they fight because their lives are endager and someone is attacking them. They dont provoke the fight. Im a martial artist and I know better than to just start a fight. You resolve it in another way. I know it sounds elementary but it is wat it is.
2007-11-19 05:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by PSOs gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously does karate judging from his name. But if you know u can beat him, Why fight him at all? What are u going to prove? That people who can fight well can most likely beat someone who doesn't fight well? I think that has been proven already too many times. So don't wear yourself out. Fighting is not the only answer.
2007-11-17 16:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him out in front of his friends and tell him either knock it off or you will mess his face up in front of his friends, gf, ect.
If he gets in your face hit him immediately with a strong punch to the tip of his chin. In other words, sucker punch him before he does the same to you. This will give you the clear advantage, and if he is still able to fight you can pepper him with punches and kicks.
After being humiliated in front of everyone, perhaps he will aquire some humility.
2007-11-20 23:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Eric K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kid is obviously suffering from being overweight and picking on other people for attention or to make himself feel better or more accepted, like the guy above said do not act unless this fatso is agressive and attacks, it is better to avoid a fight than start one, and just b/c you had a growth spurt and are now larger doesnt mean it is right for you to go starting fights w/ smaller kids or people, it is better to befriend this person if possible, you never know y'all could have something in common.
2007-11-17 13:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by johnw6767 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him out but don't fight him....just make him back down. He'll stop after that and will prob duck out of the fight if you give him a chance....just be prepared if he doesn't.
2007-11-17 17:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by D D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either put away your black belt and don't call yourself one and beat him up or find some other way to deal with it.
2007-11-19 10:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋