I wanna talk to more guys?

Question

I seem to have this problem to talking to certain guys. Like more popular and good looking ones kind of intimidate me some. There is also another problem, a lot around my area are goofballs and don't really take things seriously. I'm more of a mature person, well when I'm at school lol. Well anyway, what can i do to talk to more conservative, bit mature, but still good looking guys who ARENT shy?

Answer 1

Well...if your still in school..your still young. And if your still young, most guys will be immature goofballs that don't take things seriously(see a connection?)

You have to accept that most of the conservative, mature not so shy guys are not good looking. At least as not as good looking as the jerks. So you might need to alter what you think of as good looking.

Then just hang out in the places these guys do...libraries, coffee shops, book stores, and such. You can also join stuff like the chess club, model UN and such. Or volunteer at the church or rec center. Once your next to a guy for an hour..you should be able to at least chit chat.