My bf is going to get married, we love each other so much but we belong from different cultures, different religions..he is much into his family,His mom doesn't want any other girl more than their culture..he told me earlier that one day he has to go but now i love him so much!!!! but cant stop him. he also know that.... but he will never go against to his family.Is their any solution to save him Forever????
2007-11-17 12:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't really care abt any other woman he'll marry with but it shud be only from his culture, because for me he will never leave his family.
2007-11-17 12:52:32 · update #1
If he really loves you, he will try to convince his mom. In your case his love with family is more than yours. He can change only if he is unmarried and your relation continues for some more time..
2007-11-17 12:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by remo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two willing to compromise for the sake of each other. I am from a religious background that requires one to convert before marrying. But I have seen my friends who were willing to do this and integrate with the family. They are very unlikely to change, but you may have to for his sake. This make take a lot of courage as it may be the path of most resistance.
This is your choice to make. Is he worth it? Would he treat you with uttermost respect and kindness in return for your sacrifice? Or would he leave you for a second wife after a few years? This is a wild card. No one knows what the future holds. But you could decide what's best for you based on intuition and what you know best.
But he needs to make sacrifices as well. It has to be a two-way street to work. Or else, the burden may be too heavy on you.
Good luck in finding your true love and happiness dear!
2007-11-17 20:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to go against his parents and stick by ur side than obviously he's not that much in love with you..
2007-11-17 20:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Esm[][]th 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter what cultures you're from. if you're truly in love he would run away with you because he doen't love the other woman. if his love was all for you then he would refuse to marry the other woman.
2007-11-17 20:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sound like a familiar story... oh yeah...Romeo and Juliet.
Lets face it. sometimes society dictates our decisions. Therefore, will we ever discover who we are if we allow this to happen?
2007-11-17 20:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Veteranschoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your chances are slim and none and slim just left. He won't pick you over his family, so no you can't save anybody but yourself.
2007-11-17 20:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's into you, and it doesn't sound like he is willing to be with you and his family.
2007-11-17 20:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound low, but get pregnant with his baby.
2007-11-17 20:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Princess A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋