that he wouldn't mind being around female company without sex? I mean, as long as the female isn't trying to flirt with me, there should be no problem. That's why I thought it would be cool to hang with some attractive lesbians or something. Maybe I'm just tired of myself, and other men, and just want to be around women-folk.
2007-11-17 12:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, there is an element of respectful abstinence and a good time, when there is natural attraction toward another person. Withstanding doing anything sensual, but hanging around each other may be a task, but there a good friendship can be built too. Not that the two are desiring one another, but there is a mutual appreciation for each other's appearance. But there could be a boundary line of respect and mutual agreement to be just friends; I think this is meaningful. I mean, we tend to care more for people we are naturally attracted to somehow. It's true. But I have to say, sometimes I can get side tracked into sensual mannerisms, but it is usually concerning someone I am talking about to that person. Bad place to go. Just a thought. But I think lesbians may be a better choice, cause there is definite boundary lines. And yes, I've been accused of being full of shyt.
2007-11-17 13:08:32 · update #1
"That's why I thought it would be cool to hang with some attractive lesbians or something."
Why would they have to be attractive? Maybe that's why. Appearance really shouldn't matter if you're only looking for friendship.
Plus it's really difficult for two straight people of the opposite sex to not eventually have some sort of attraction, from my experience.
2007-11-17 12:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt hard to be around women as just friends as long as they arent being flirtacious but if you think hot lesbians wont take pride in teasing you and leaving you high and dry, you are silly
2007-11-17 20:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a common nature of human being.
2007-11-18 01:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says they think you are lying? Maybe your are mistaking that with them just figuring you're gay.
2007-11-17 20:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're only friends, why do you care what they look like?
2007-11-17 20:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋