Have you ever had a concious feeling about starting a new relationship?

Question

Have you ever had a concious feeling about starting a new relationship?
Like when you know that certain someone wants to take it to the next level and you really aren't sure about if you really can hand the responsabilities of have a real meaningful relationship, or if you really want this person in your life. like you are afraid to commit???

Answer 1

You just asked this same question.

I believe that everyone has those feelings. Like "Oh my, what have I gotten myself into?" or "I am not sure I am ready for a long term commitment." I think it is a normal feeling to an extent.

There are feelings of what if I am not good enough. He/She deserves someone better, I am not sure of how I feel, What is the purpose.

It took 2 years for me and my boyfriend to date after being friends. We have been dating about a year now. There is fear of commitment still in our relationship, at least on one half.

I believe that going slowly and getting to know someone without the physical part of the relationship, takes time. One day at a time.....
Everyone has to figure out for themselves what it is they want in a relationship, what qualities they are looking for, does your partner or possible partner have at least some of the same things in common, What if's.........

I pray about my relationship. It helps me and gives me a peace about it. I pray for the knowledge and understanding of what it is God wants me to do. I honestly would like to follow perfectly what he wants me to do.

Sometimes letting it go into God's hands is hard to do, because there is a feeling of loss of control over our lives. God knows the best for us. It is up to us to "Give it to God".

I always had the fear of someone cheating on me because it has happened so often, so why should I commit? If I commit, then I may get hurt.

Sometimes it is better to take a chance at love, then never to have known what it feels like.

Best wishes to you.

Answer 2

yup

feeling it right now. i don't know about the other person, but i'm thinking about it.

i'm always hearing that i should take a chance because i'm young, but i don't want to break his heart nor do i want my heart broken either.

Answer 3

I am not afraid to commit!!!