wanna risk their lifes and futures to have babies and cant even be smart to wait til theyre done with high schools and look for a good real jobs . either they are still a child .
2007-11-17 12:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
could be for several reasons. They don't have the right role models in their lives and are reaching out to have that acceptance from a guy because for some reason their own father isn't there. Trying to be popular with the guys, and not realizing that all they are doing is getting a label of 'school slut, whore, sleeze, easy' what ever you want to call it. Wanting to be accepted, and more than not to have something that the loves them no matter what happens. Something of her own. Most of all, not to have someone to talk to about the consequences, Like a parent to ask questions and get answers.
In the heat of the moment most people don't stop and think of the outcome; pregnancy!
It also seems to be a "in" thing with kids these days. They are in such a hurry to grow up and not relax enjoy your childhood. Becoming an adult comes soon enough with all the hassles of everyday life.
2007-11-17 12:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are responding to the most intense "drive" all living beings have---the urge to survive. No one survives into the next generation without having children---people living on the planet now are all the result of this, and each generation the urge gets greater.
Society, for many reasons, works to delay this ---- teen girls who won't wait to have children probably don't trust in the future, and the future "rewards" society, school, church, etc. tells them are waiting if they have babies in their 20's, instead.
They just don't see the point in waiting----usually this is because they have had few material rewards as children, and assume they'll do just fine as adults living in the same poverty they did as children.
2007-11-17 12:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know I was one of those girls I had a son at 16 years old.Do I regret him no do I wish I would of waited yes,I do.It was a hard road and sometimes still is thank God I meet my husband not his father biologically but in every way that counts.To answer you q I really don't know for everyone for me in all honesty my home life was not good and I had Daddy issues
2007-11-17 12:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by what did you say 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure you should be so quick to blame the girls. Guys can be very persuasive, and peer pressure is intense.
Poor parenting skills can be blamed in many cases too. If they are not taught at a young enough age by parents who care, this can add to the problem also.
Add the desire for a girl to be wanted, and that is an awful lot of pressure on her.
2007-11-17 12:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by trooper3316 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Many young girls do not get pregnant on purpose. Yes, they know sex=pregnancy, but the hormones are raging!!!! Just because they made a mistake on having sex, they decide to do the right thing and not terminate the pregnancy becasue two wrongs do not make a right.
2007-11-17 12:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
some girls just want to be mothers and think that they wont amount to anything so they just want to get it over with. but some underage moms just really want to be parents. i mean, im only 13, and i would already love to be a mother. but i know that i have college to go to and i want to be married. :]
2007-11-17 13:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Rose 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well some girls get raped and other girls say their sluts and a whore when they dont even know what happend to them not ALL girls are like that
2007-11-17 12:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't agree that they have premarital sex but I don't agree with you question. Its distasteful, condemning, and not going to help any one who reads it.
2007-11-17 12:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Peer pressure, or they haven't been told of the risk of having sex.
2007-11-17 12:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kirby 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You need to look at yourself before you judge someone else. Your grammar is terrible.
2007-11-17 12:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋