I feel like everything I do is wrong...I feel unlovable because no guys have ever liked me...I feel ugly inside and out...I know its shallow I really do...but its been stressful.
2007-11-17 11:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hi
Ive felt like you do before.Is there someone you can call?if not try the samaratins or if your real bad go to casualty.
Try writing everything down or typing on the computer.You called also try drawing i know at times i found it difficult to word what was going round my mind.sometimes i would really attack some paper with a pen and rip it to bits.
i have recently become a single mum.and not had much luck with men.i sometimes hate myself.
i bet your a lovely person.what would you do if you saw some elderly person in trouble or if a child fell over and couldnt find there mum?im certain you wouldnt laugh at them would you?that makes you a beautiful lovable person.
2007-11-17 11:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by help? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of the same feelings. The first thing you have to do is like yourself and don't worry about what other people think. Find some activities that you like, golf, bowling, etc, and get involved in them. You will start making friends with people with the same interests. From experience I can say that working out on a regular basis will help you feel better. It may take a while for the effects to show, but keep working. I know some people who take St. John's Wart, a natural anti-depressant, but as you will always hear, consult a doctor before taking any medication, Rx or OTC.
Don't give up, life is a wonderful thing.
2007-11-17 19:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bill J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me... please dont do that. I know this sounds stupid but do you have any friends that you can talk to??? I felt that way back in high school because I was bigger than all of my friends and I never had any really close friends. All of them were skinny and basically I was a loner and no one would really talk to me. What I did was look in the mirror and looked to see if I could find anything really beautiful that I loved about myself. And really I started crying and ate even more. I eventually turned my eating obession to something positive. I started getting wrapped in books and living out things that I could do in reality in my imagination... From there I found that I was really beautiful and that I was self-dependent on my own happiness and that if I needed to rely on someone to make me happy then I wouldnt truly be happy on the inside. If you wanna talk to me then email me. Ashleygriffinheaton@yahoo.com
if you really feel alone and wanna talk to me... I will answer anything that you want me to.
2007-11-17 19:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you view yourself is created ENTIRELY by the world around you. all your judgments come from experiencing and seeing what people think of different things. You look in pretty much any magazine and everyone is pretty, beautiful and happy. that is what is seen as being most accepted and best (this is what you should be). buy this make-up to make you pretty, wear these size 0 pants, where this bikini at the pool. None of that stuff really matters. you are sad and depressed because of what you believe everyone else thinks about you, especially guys. surround yourself with people who really care about you for only YOU and nothing else. surround youself with positive people and things will turn around. dont let what the world thinks is beautiful and popular influence what you think. be what you like to be and do what you like to do because it makes you happy and dont worry about what everyone else is doing or is.
2007-11-17 19:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god you sound like me when I was younger.
Please don't believe that about yourself. You are not unloveable because of guys!! It is very possible that plenty of guys have been interested in you, but were to insecure to tell you. Besides, somewhere, there is someone you are meant to be with. Worrying about it now, won't bring the time to meet him closer to you.
As much as I used to feel that way, like I would never be with anyone, I am now happily married with 4 kids!!! Your time will come.
You are worth more than you know! Never think suicide!!!!!!
2007-11-17 19:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by noway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice
You have to change your focus to doing more, and thinking less
Love is out there, you just have to work your way through all the toads to reach your prince, and thats a quantity thing.
(I am an agnostic) but go to a big church tomorrow, and then go to anywhere there are lots of people
Get a job with lots of people (or 2nd job with lots of people)
Only watch comedy on TV,
Only upbeat music
Lots of sunshine, open the drapes
Be promiscuous, (carefully)
Don't take yourself so serously
2007-11-17 19:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to detoxify your body--anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts can be brought up and out by toxins and also be caused by deficiencies.
If it is not emotionally based by such things as a broken heart or loss of a loved one then it could be from drugs (legal), toxins, chemicals etc., in your system
2007-11-17 19:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. There is help out there. You need to talk, to a therapist. Make an appointment and go in and talk to this person, you may end up having to talk to a Psychologist. He or she may recommend an antidepressants. It will be alright, no one has to know unless you choose to tell them.
2007-11-17 19:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not harm yourself, and get help by calling 911. Let them know what is going on before you make any attemps.
2007-11-17 19:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by Snoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to some one. any one just talk to some one don't commit suicide because guys don't like you let them see what they are missing be very flirty. go to the Doctor and get some happy pills (antidepressants)
2007-11-17 23:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Eris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋