i really hope ALLAH TALLAH makes it easy for your family. ive been in a sittuation liek this. before i got married my brother was in to all sorts of things and even ended up in hospital after getting beat realy bad. thats was the worst to see him like that. he was alsi in jail once. but i was patient and prayed so much to ALLAH for things to get better. youve really got to be the best daughter and be as kind to them as possible even if there in a mood all the time, whicht hey will be because of the situation. youve got to respect them no matter what. help your mum around the house, take her out for some fresh air. encourage your paerent to do dua and read namaaz. namaaz and dua is the only way that your family will find peace.and please be patient as these kinds of problems dont go away very quickly. this is testing time for you and your family from ALLAH. and i really hope your brother realises the wrong he has done and hope he changes. my dua is with your family insha'ALLAH. dont worry and have full faith in ALLAH that HE will make things better and everything happens only for the best.
take care sis. i know what your going through.
by the way i also wanted to add...
make the most of obeying your parents the way you should becasue when i got married and had a kid i really regret not doing so much for my parents. now i know how hard it is for a mother to look after her child and how hard it is for the father to earn for the family. make the most of this time you have to obey your parents and help your brothers and sisters to. insha'ALLAH ALLAH will reward you tremendously. i live far from my parents now so dont see them for a while.
ALLAH will make it easy for you dont worry sis.
2007-11-18 21:13:21
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answered by Anonymous
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i am praying. Donot loose heart. Recite Surah Yasin for his release.. You may find many things in the modern world how to keep the brothers/childrens on track. But i will only recommend the only spritual help. Recite the Word "Al-Shaheed keeping hand at his forehead in the morning( it will be difficult if he does not want). pls also post the intimation when he is released as it will relexe us.
Also pls act upon Princess advices. These are very good
2007-11-18 15:11:53
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answered by life is too short 3
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Just be strong, and InshAllah will guide him. Remind your parents to have faith in Allah. InshAllah he will be fine. Sometimes when we don't hear Allah’s warning, we must go through bad measures to wake up. Be there for your brother, and remind him as well that he must go back to the straight path. Salaam.
2007-11-17 10:10:24
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answered by me me 3
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Talk to your parents..
Reassure them, everything will be fine.. Try to take their minds of problems by talking about fun stuff..
And yes ill pray for your brother XD but i dont think many people dont understand what DUAH means here.
Hope that helped :D
2007-11-17 09:45:28
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answered by Anonymous
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just tell your parents tat plz give me a chance to support you just try tat n then u could help ur parents n i will du'a for ur brother bye i gotto go
2007-11-17 09:58:42
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answered by shafia k 2
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Just be a presence and make sure they know you are there for them. Just because they are parents does not mean they won't come to you if there is a problem, especially if they know ahead of time that they can.
2007-11-17 09:45:40
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answered by Anonymous
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parent are the biggest thing in whole world
you make their mind to work on some other think s i will pray for your brother
may God end your testing
2007-11-18 10:15:35
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answered by Abbas 4
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needless to say some mothers and fathers who pay newborn help think of like this or we does no longer have this variety of super variety of no longer paying like they should. in spite of this, i've got faith he's definitely egocentric and it shows.
2016-11-11 22:49:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I will keep you in my prayers inshaAllah sister. May Allah swt guide us all and makes things easier for us.
Peace!
2007-11-17 17:11:55
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answered by ♥IslamForever♥ 5
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comfort tell them everything will be fine remind that allah is almighty and with your prayers your brother should be fine
Insallah
2007-11-17 12:18:03
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answered by Anonymous
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