Addicted to sex? Or just a phase…?

Question

I find myself being addicted to sex. My girlfriend can’t satisfy my sexual need, so I find myself thinking more of sex. I was never like this; this started from a significant career leap at work. I signed up in the company's gym with a personal trainer to get in shape. I look better and feel great physically. With more money in my pocket to party, and carry out my personal fantasies, I find myself looking over attractive women in clubs and public places more than ever, even thinking of having sex, and not shying away from giving a flirtiest, Hello. I honestly think I am going thru a phase of sexual debauchery with my new found success. I am not a rapper, so what the hell is going on? :-(

Answer 1

I get the impression you are a twenties male, and you are just finding out your motor runs. You need to be careful because STD's are up, but you have to face the music - if you're becoming more of a player you need to distance yourself from this GF if you think she's going to be hurt by your breaking out sexually.

I didn't say you had to totally get out of her life, but let her know you want to kick your heels up more and she's the best choice out there if you wanted to settle down.

Answer 2

well if you really care for the girl friend then give her a chance to satisfy your needs by telling her what you want and need or like. maybe let her show her crazy side you did not no was there. how can she no if you dont tell her, how can she satisfy you if she does not no is doesn't. maybe let her pretend she was a different woman put a wig on and talk different a few times see what happens then, yet you are still together but seems like you were with many others, giving her the first chance is the right thing, then if she doesnt try then take off and have fun

Answer 3

all very understandable...however...i think your main problem is that you worked out a lot. thats what happened to my bf, he worked otu a lot and things in the bedroom had to be more intense and crazy just because he had a lot more stamina. as for looking at other girls...im guessing your gf isnt too too long term and that you just jumped a few rungs on the social ladder, while she is kinda meandering behind. at least thats how you make it sound. if you dont want to be with her...then dont...and be crazy for a while. You have the capacity to do what you want...and you want to know how far your new success can ake you. maybe theres things your gf won do with you that you knwo other girls will do...think about it. and if you want to stay with her...then talk to her about tryign different things to mix it up.

Answer 4

dont do this to your girl friend.
you shouldnt be looking over attractive womens because you have someone that is more important to you and thats your girl.
she might break up with you if you keep thinkin of sex over other important things in life.
men should always and i mean always treat their girl right even though you want to have sex and she doesnt.
you need to care for your girl more than ever

Answer 5

Took me a couple decades to get over being a sexual adventurer - I would get it out of your system now. After you do something a few hundred or few thousand times you do get over it.

Answer 6

i had the same problem over 20 years ago.now I'm what people call a nympho or a sex addict.if you find a way to curb it let me know.

Answer 7

Maybe you have not explored new levels with her (girlfriend)....She might just surprise you. Try experimenting with her. You sound like you are experiencing a mid-life crisis........

Answer 8

What it is is that you've achieved some form of success in one part of your life, and now you want success in another part of your life.

Answer 9

maybe you two started with too much sexual stuff. get to know your girlfriend in other ways...i hope it will go away, or that her sexual desire will increase lol

Answer 10

Start rappin' son!