My bf & i have been together on and off for almost a 1 1/2 years he cheated on me twice but we worked through it. 1 of the times he made out with another girl & the other time he had sex with the same girl.he promised me hed never cheat on me again. 4almost 2monthes everything was great, we fought very little. a week ago he went riding around with 3 girls from another town.of course i got a call bout it. he didnt lie&he said nothin happend. then the next night i got a call saying he was riding around with another girl by himself..once again he told me all about it &i had ppl confirm it was innocent. all week he texted a girl who likes him alot & he says that shes nothin but i feel replaced by her newayz. 2day i got a call that last night he was w/ the same girl he was last week. he told me nothing of it last night & i dont think he plans 2. i love him & i dont rly want 2 lose him but i dont want him going bhind my bak. i dont know if i can trust/believe him anymore. please help me.
2007-11-17 08:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you still with this guy? He has demonstrated that he can't be faithful. He just hopes you don't ask too many questions and accept whatever answers he has to the few questions you ask. He wants you as reliable girlfriend, yet still wants to run around with other girls. Let the other girls have him. Tell him when he's ready for just one girl, you'll consider him - or maybe not.
Stop being a doormat and tell him good-bye. It will feel so good.
2007-11-17 09:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people dont change. he apparently doesnt have any respect for you or he wouldnt be doing this. and do you have no respect for yourself? loose him and find someone that can treat you right. imagine if you kept on going with this relationship, then you get married, have children, and then you get herpes or hiv because of his acts, then you bring it into your house hold and your children.
you stated "My bf & i have been together on and off for almost a 1 1/2 years" why dont you leave it at off. its un healthy.
2007-11-17 17:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it... Once a cheater always a cheater. You sound young.. You don't need this sort of crap I'm sure you can do better. Everyone deserves at least someone that is faithful.
2007-11-17 17:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by hereisaaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that loser! You should have dumped him back when he cheated on you the first time! You need to learn from this though. Don't let it happen EVER again. You don't deserve to be treated like that!
2007-11-17 17:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has had a history of not being true to you.
things don,t sound right to me, you may love him,
but i feel if he loved you he would not be doing
what he is doing. find a true blue guy to love. you will.
good luck.
2007-11-17 17:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try this.start going places with other guys and don't do anything sexual.call him while your out with them.fair is fair.if he don't like it.tell him you'll stop if he does.if not it would be time to break up.
2007-11-17 17:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by ripp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay with him, he avisley doesn't love you if he cheated on you... dupm his sorry little@ss.
2007-11-17 17:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Emmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋