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if you have dated a smoker or you are now, how do you deal?

2007-11-17 08:56:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I don't smoke, but my 17-year-old girlfriend does. She usually smokes about two packs of cigarettes every day. I allow her to smoke in my house and in my car. Since her parents don't let her smoke around them, she makes up for it when she is with me. In fact, most of the time she comes to see me just so she can smoke a cigarette. Very rarely do I see her without a cigarette burning in her hand. I don't mind her smoking at all. I actually like the smell of cigarettes, and I encourage her to smoke near me.

2007-11-18 22:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Most definitely. I think women who smoke are hot and believe she should smoke whenever she wanted to.

2014-04-27 11:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 4 · 0 0

Yeah I'm a non-smoker and always have been but I dated a boy for a year once that smoked... it was awful to get use to I'll be honest... everytime I kissed him it was just like ew... but it didn't really take me that long to get use to it... just don't think about it, don't be like ew ew ew he taste awful, try to think about how he's a great kisser (which hopefully he is). If it doesn't work to try to avoid the taste, give him some gum or mouth wash until you get use to it, I'm pretty sure he won't find it asaulting or anything... Your'll get use to it over time don't worry. Good luck to you =]

2007-11-17 17:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

For the most part no. I did date a guy who smoked occassionally, like every couple days, but he always smoked outside his apartment and he never smelled bad so it was tolerable. In general though if I found a guy smoked a lot that would be the end right there. Most smokers smell, their clothes smell, their breath is bad. I just feel like it is dirty and don't want to subject myself to that. Especially if they smoke in the house/car and you are putting yourself at risk for 2nd hand smoke diseases.

2007-11-17 17:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

depends on the smoker since there are different kinds, there are the ones who try very hard not to get smoke around other people, they realize it's something not everyone does, then there are those who smoke everywhere around everyone with no care at all, if the smoking bothers you just ask them not to smoke around you, the outside is a huge area it's not like you are asking them to quit or maybe ask them to use mints

2007-11-17 17:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by sparrowszealot 4 · 1 0

I used to smoke and have quit...it doesn't bother me to sit and talk with a smoker...not at all. (Or date one) Smoking is a habit, I asked my man would he like me to smoke again, and he replied "No, I think you're too pretty to smoke anyway."

He went on to say,

"I'm kind of adjusted to my girl not smoking."

2007-11-17 16:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I haven't but probably would. Its just an annoying habit. Maybe try to get them to quit. I would recommend you start going to the gym a lot and eating really healthy... eventually the person will start to be more healthy also.

2007-11-17 17:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kip 3 · 1 0

learn to accept the fact that the other psrson smokes.
its better than being a mass murder.

2007-11-17 17:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1 0

if i was u i would not then if he smoke he can die already

2007-11-17 16:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by princesssteph456 2 · 0 1

if i loved him...of course

2007-11-17 16:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Amelia54 1 · 1 0

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