why a man cheats and gets another girl pregant and she done has the baby?

Question

i have a man that cheated onme with afemale that he used todate and he has a baby that is 4 months olkd and its hurts me so much and how do i deal with it bc its hurts everyday and i he still talks to her

Answer 1

They do it because they don't have respect for theirselves and their girlfriend. Well he going to talk to her regular because of the child. Get out of that relationship because he no good, and will be hard to truth him for now on.

Answer 2

Okay. They have a baby together. He has to have communication with her in order to see his child. You have two choices. Walk away because you can't forgive him and you don't want to be a part of this because you don't love him enough or stay and understand that he has a connection because of his child and you do love him, so therefore you support him seeing and taking care of his child. If you Love him, you have to love that part of him also. Love is forgiving and moving forward and trying to find the best solution for the whole situation. It's no reflection on you if you don't want to go through this, but how would it make you feel if he chose not to see or take care of his own child? Even if it was an affair, there were consequences. A child is never a mistake and is perfectly innocent, so don't blame the child. You have a lot of decisions to make...and growing up to do if you don't understand that. Yes, it hurts I know. Ultimately, this will prove if he is the man he should be when it comes to taking responsibility. Good luck.

Side note to Sophie B....you've obviously never been through someone cheating on you. I used to say the same thing, but when it happens to you, it's different. Don't say what you will do unless you've been there.

Answer 3

You have two choices: either you continue to TOLERATE it as you have been, or you don't. He is not going to change. In addition, he now has a baby that he is legally and morally responsible for for the next 21 years. And he's having sex with another woman. If you don't mind a man who is polygamous (and who could bring home any number of diseases and infect you), then continue. If you want better in your life you will have to discontinue any and all contact with him permanently. No man of good character will want to be with you while you are still with him! It's your choice.

Answer 4

he wont replace , divorce him now, i married a participant , replaced into married 19 yrs , very unhappy 19 yrs , he all started cheating 3 yrs into marriage , I stay for sake of youngsters . What a fool i replaced into.theory possibly if I became a blind eye to what he replaced into doing ..as long as me and the youngsters have been taken care of could be ok.i replaced into incorrect I positioned my self in possibility,,wellbeing smart. Whats unhappy we had a marvelous intercourse existence too , I wasn't a undertaking to him.some adult adult males continually want annoying circumstances. I got here from having 3 step mothers 3 step dads , so i stayed fo r the youngsters ,, the youngsters and that i've got been depressing. notice extra .you like your daughter to think of its alright to be taken care of such as you're? coach her what a reliable female is .mom she learns those issues from the style you shelter them. You permit your guy run over you , she will permit comparable concern ensue to her .

Answer 5

Let him go. You will ALWAYS resent him, the girl, and the baby (even though it didn't ask to be born). You need to say Good bye to the guy and get yourself into therapy, and move on. You will hurt, that isn't no lie, but life goes on. And you will too.

Answer 6

If you can't deal with someone your only with them in fear of being alone. If I was cheated on SEE YA too many fish in the sea!!!

Answer 7

The real question is why do you put up with a man that cheats?

I would have thrown his butt out, when I found out..

Move on .. and find someone better...