I'm in love with this boy that i been with for a year and 4 months and I'm still a virgin and hes 17 bout to be 18 in December but anyway hes not a virgin and i really want to loose my virginity to him but the only thing stopping me is the fear of getting pregnant but i know I'm ready to loose my virginity to him but i don't know what i should do!!!!!!!!!! Can anybody give me some advice?
2007-11-17 05:51:11 · 20 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Listen to me dear, u are young, u have your whole life ahead of u, u shouldn't be in a rush to do such things,u could definitely get pregnant and at your age that would be quite a set back in life 4 u.u should really take it slow with him,and i hope that everything works out 4 the best.U might not listen to my advice but i hope that whatever decision u make, i hope that it would b the smart and right one u make:)
2007-11-17 06:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shari G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and you may think you want to now, but you don't have the judgement of an adult. Especially if you fear pregnancy so much shows you are not mature enough to make that decision. You may not like my answer, but you will appreciate it when you are older.
Also I thought if a 18 year old had sex with a 16 year old it was statuatory rape?
2007-11-17 06:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how twisted up is that!! initially, I congratulate you for having the nerve to me mature and say something, even while all the different adults around you're behaving like morons. i'd advise that next time you notice an underage lady at your place, ask her if her mothers and dads know that she's seeing a 22 12 months previous, and that they might have an argument with that. you additionally can threaten to tell the mothers and dads your self...this would reason issues for you, yet whats up...it is extra applicable than something offender going on!
2016-10-17 02:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy is the least of your worries!!!!
Do you know there are over 50 sexually transmitted diseases (STDS) common among teens and preteens today?
DID YOU KNOW THAT....
Any sexual contact will give you an STD
Condoms do not protect you
Some STDs can kill your baby if your DR doesn't know you have it
Some STDs can cause so much damage you will never be able to have kids
Most STDs have no cure - they are life long
When you have sex, biologically your are having sex with every diseased person your partner ever had contact with.\
Rebel against the world --save it for marriage
Rebel agains the world -- abstain & live
2007-11-17 06:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your sure that hes really the one you want to lose your virginity too, then make sure you have a condom ready in case he doesnt have one, in fact have 3 in case the first one doesnt go on properly, you could see your doctor about going on the pill to be double safe, but obviously you still need to use a condom to protect yourself from any std's. If for some reason he objects to using a condom then please dont go ahead with it, if he loves and respects you he wont mind using one.
Make sure you have your together private place and time, you dont want your first time to be remembered as being a rush job in the back of his car or anything.
Be sensible and good luck x
2007-11-17 06:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by nickandmick 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is not a virgin, have him tested for STD's. It is not that difficult to get one. As for not getting pregnant, use condoms and birthcontrol pills. But it may be wise to think twice about losing your virginity just because you feel like "he is the one."
2007-11-17 06:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by matthew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in this situation a long time ago. dont do it if you dont want too. if you really want to, it will be a decision that is with you for the rest of your life.
as weird as it is, talk to someone (an adult) close to you. a parent is hard to talk to but if you know anyone else, talking to them about it is always safe. even if they say "wait till youre married."
whatever you do, dont rush it. if he loves you back, he wont make you. and, you wont have to in order to keep him.
Oh, and your sixteen. there are a lot of other guys to give your virginity to. make sure he's really the one and you wont regret it in the morning.
SAFEST BET: if you really are gonna do it. use a condom and be safe.
2007-11-17 06:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by t_desens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you're WAYYY too young! Im a 21 year old VIRGIN and am waiting till marriage goes to show you that it is not impossible...if not till marriage save it for when you're older believe you gonna stay stuck on him for a while and you dont want that.
2007-11-17 06:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by lilmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your ready then ok.
Theres a lot of things you could do to prevent pregnancy. First of all its VITAL you wear a condom becuase as well as protecting againt you getting pregnant it will stop you getting nasty desieses like STI's. You could also go on the pill this is an effective way. There is all sorts of other ways you could prevent pregnancy all kinds of injections and implants. You should consult your local GP. or go to your local brook clinic (search it on google) if you live in the uk. Hope i helped and make sure your one hundred percent safe.
2007-11-17 06:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok ok if u really want to losse ur virigtny 2 him go ahead but be proctected make sure he uses a codom and mabey u should talk to ur mom about gettin birth contorl pill if u really want to do this and u really love him then go ahead but be smart about using protection
2007-11-17 06:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋