My parents just got a divorce, he said if i keep my grades up untill spring I can get one. I don't want to wait that long.
2007-11-17 05:35:14 · 19 answers · asked by Morgan 1 in Pets ➔ Dogs
We also just got over the loss of our dog who was like a brother to us... we had a new puppy but it kinda turned mean and started attacking me.
2007-11-17 06:09:41 · update #1
One thing is that my dad isn't really having a hard time with the divorice and i know i know he's probably not telling me but he is dissapointed about the divorice... HELP
2007-11-17 06:55:20 · update #2
well then get a small dog like a Maltese/poodle
there hair does not get long and the dog will be a poof ball, and they only get 5 pounds.
And the way to get your dad to buy one is to ask him "dad please, ill take care of it and ill pick the doodoo up when i take him/her for a walk,ill potty train the dog" or just ask him "what can i do to get a dog, but to a point where i don't have to wait long.
but i really think you should wait, he'll know when to give a dog to u.
2007-11-17 06:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some kids can't get their parents to agree to let them have a dog at all, so count yourself lucky. Waiting can be hard, but it's doable and it's worth it. Try to concentrate on other things, including keeping your grades up. Christmas is still probably going to be exciting and something to look forward to for you, even if you won't be getting a puppy yet. Do some research and start figuring out what kind of dog will be best for your family. Keep in mind that Christmas can be a very busy time for families, so it's often a bad time to introduce a new pet to the home. Don't pressure your dad. If you keep begging and whining and telling him you don't want to wait, he may just get fed up and decide that you aren't mature enough to have a puppy yet. Be patient and you'll have your puppy before you know it.
2007-11-17 13:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Demon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok summer is actually the BEST time to get a new dog or pup - it will be just about impossible to housetrain one while you are in school and that can be a problem - eg. if its not properly house trained your dad might want to get rid of it... PLUS you should take it for proper obedience training.
Waiting gives you (and your dad) loads of time to consider what breeds are right for you and to get ready (eg fence the yard or build a dog run etc...)
your dad just got a divorce.. this is NOT the time to pressure him for a dog.. a dog is a LIFETIME commitment - not something you get just so somebody shuts up and quits bugging you... it is not fair for the dog to come into a home for that reason.. your dad MUST want a dog too.. otherwise the dog will be dumped if you cannot look after it - and what will happen when you move out or go to College? most places wont allow dogs.. so unless your dad is willing to make a lifetime commitment to the dog - dont get one!!!!
when its time - make sure you check your local shelters, SPCA, first.. NEVER NEVER get from a pet store!!! - and consider an older pup or adult - one who is more settled and perferably already house trained - also if its already spayed or neutered that will save you $...
2007-11-17 13:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to. If your Dad isn't ready to get one yet, he has his reasons. If he is going to be footing the bill for the pup, then he is the one who will say when the time is right. Don't push him, that won't help. He sounds like he's got his own issues to deal with right now, respect him and do your part (with the grades) and I'm sure he'll keep his word and get you a puppy in the spring.
2007-11-17 14:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by BVC_asst 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christmas isn't a good time for a puppy. How much time can you devote to a new dog on a holiday? Plus there will be people all around, and so much hectic times. A new puppy needs some quiet time to adjust and get used to her new home. Wait until Spring and do good in school. Trust me, it's worth it.
2007-11-17 13:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Judgerz 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait. In the end you father realizes that he is the one who is going to end up taking care of it... no matter how good itentioned you are about it. They poop and pee everywhere, they chew up things you don't want them to chew up. They are an added expense to the household, with food, toys, vet bills, shots, tags and if they bite someone, law suits.
Yes they are cute and cuddly, and fun to play with, but they are not to be undertaken lightly. They are a responsibility. A serious responsibility. That animal is going to need care for 10-20 years. It is a living thing.
If your father does not feel that right now is the right time to have a dog, then please be understanding about it. He doesn't have the luxury of thinking only of the fun stuff.
2007-11-17 13:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by diane_b_33594 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I had that problem too..but the best thing to do is not pressure your dad. He won't get you pet if you keep doing this. Just act responsible, and do good in school. It's better to get a dog in spring, then never...
2007-11-17 13:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to wait that long, but the puppy won't have to walk in the freezing snow. I know how it feels. I have waited about 5 years till I got a puppy. It was toutures. But I had to show I was responsible enough. I know you can do he same! Good- luck with your grades!
2007-11-17 13:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ameliaaaaa (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until spring and consider getting an adult dog. Puppies can be a lot of work.
2007-11-17 14:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by BostonJeffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it will come sooner then you think
Research dog breeds, shelters and basic care
Find out everything you can , and then when byour dad is ready for a pup you will be ablen to get one much quicker.
Spring is a good time to get a dog, better weather , easier to housetrain, summers almost here.
Dont bug your dad or he might not want a pup at all.
When he says you can get one check out www.petfinder.com or locate a reputable breeder www.akc.org
2007-11-17 13:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋