im 17 and live with my mom and step dad. can i leave?i mean live with my boyfriend? he wants me to and so do i. we are pregnant together.i want to leave NOW, not when im 18 i can't take it. i live in denver, co (if that helps) it's just my step dad drives me crazy, he never lets me party and i AM a party girl. i want my life back, i want to lap dance and pack a hot tub. i want to home from parties with my bf and throw my own. i want to live with my bf. when can i leave? im a senior and go to the same high school as adam.
2007-11-17 04:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, my bf and i have been saving money.
2007-11-17 04:40:40 · update #1
I'm sorry, you're pregnant and you're all about partying?
Honey, I think you need to face reality. Your partying days are over.
2007-11-17 04:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tikva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can LEAVE anytiime you want to. The REAL question is "Do you want to?"
Be careful what you ask for-you JUST might get it. And that ain't no cliche.
IF you want to do lap dances and party "neckked", fine. Just be certain that you have the financial resources to do it. But at 17 it is my considered guess that you ain't got enough to make spit let alone rent. And car payments, or Public Transportation, or food, or clothes (sorry, I forgot, you'll be nekked in a hot tub) or ANY of the many hundreds of things your mom or stepdad are nor providing for you.
Wake up and smell the coffee sweatheart. Once you are out on the town and have been passed around to all of the local studs and have contracted some desease, you'll be able to have a home of your own underneathe the I-70 overpass.
Of course you'll have to make amends with some jerk like your stepdad to "keep an eye on your personal belongings" while you go out for the essentials like partying and hot tub time (if you are still welcome) and when you get BACK from your rounds, nomatter HOW perfunctory they are, your small accumulation of stuff will be gone and you get to start all over.
Its' a great life, both the one you now have and the one you are about to opt for. Its' just that one has a few more benifits that you are accustomed to.
My advise is to quite listening to the advise of a looser hippy friend and wake up to reality-Get an education, a job, a family. THEN if you want to take to the hills of the Interstate Underpass as home, have at it.
2007-11-17 04:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by De Deuce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're pregnant , most of that stuff is out the window, because for the next 18 years you are going to be taking care of baby.
If your parents have insurance and your still covered, as long as you live at home, your medical expenses will be covered.
You will have a lot of medical expensesin the next year.
Babies don't come free, having a baby costs up wards of 10,000 dollars . Does your BF have the money?
Forget about the partying, that's over....
2007-11-17 04:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still can't leave until you're 18, unless they let you. you can always run away, and move in with him...but I don't suggest that. Why do you want to party...if you're pregnant...you should be taking it easy. Your parents are only trying to protect you. It will happen when it's supposed to....GOD- i hated hearing that when i was 17....sorry. I'm 21....my parents kicked me out when i was 17...so I didn't have a choice. Good luck!
2007-11-17 04:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can leave when it's your time. Tell your parents about your boyfriend and that you want to move in with him. it's obvious that your parents are worried about with your party spirit and all. they do not want you to start having sex early and end up with a bad disease and have all of these problems at a young age. you are senoir right? ok then. you can move out whenever. everything will happen the way it is supposed to happen. amke them understand the situation more and then they may be more understanding and sympathetic. after that you may be able to move out. if your parents do not respect your boyfriend then good luck but if they appreciate him have fun living with your boyfriend. make the right choice and don't mess up. have no regrets with your decision and just do you. peace.
2007-11-17 04:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to State Law, you must be 18.
As for your desires to act irresponsibly during your pregnancy, shows that you are not mature enough to leave home.
Being pregnant means you can no longer be a "party girl." It is not healthy for you or your unborn baby to be filling hot tubs, partying, etc.
For the sake of your unborn child and for your health, please reconsider the lifestyle that you want to continue living.
Many things do change once you become pregnant and the "fun days" are gone - at least until your child is grown up and ready to be on his/her own; however, the rewards and joys of parenthood far outweigh the old days of partying.
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2016-10-24 09:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by aeschlimann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like your step dad just wants to take care of you.
Its about time to grow up, don't you think. Get a job, raise the kid, have a good family. Don't act like an idiot and party. You're pregnant. Grow up, kid.
Listen to your step dad.
Sounds like a wise man.
2007-11-17 04:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by 3mily! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say no its hard being by ur self r u guys ganna work? drop out of skool? u have a baby on the way the best is to stay with u parents or u can talk to them like a grown women , set down say" mom step dad we need to talk" tell them wat u want don't yell or fight with them or nag if you do they won't take you seriously! tell them to mayb make the garage into a mini house 4 u and ur bf and soon baby! REMEMBER talk like a grownup don't yell don't nag , be calm and hope it all turns out great!
2007-11-17 07:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFL, your pregnant, and now u want your life back. WOW u are in for a wake up call. Your life is about to change completely. Please realize that, and quit focusing on partying and focus on being a decent mother. Holly crap, grow up. Your bringing a life into this world, quit being selfish.
2007-11-17 04:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you have such a practical plan for the rest of your life, why not sue to become an emancipated minor now?
2007-11-17 04:27:50 · answer #11 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋