I know that homosexual is wrong ang the Bible says that it is wrong. I keep messing up and then coming back to God, messing up and then coming abck to God. How can I break this cycle and just stay in God's presence? This sin is bothering me to no end. Please help!
2007-11-17 04:05:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No one seems to be answering your question. You have already said you know it is wrong, therefore you have read Gods Word on this and are convicted of this because this is not right. Do not be swayed nor fooled by comments that Jesus does not see this as an abomination,as He does other sins also, sin is sin, this is wrong and you know that because you are a child of God, I have much hope for you because you are sincerely wanting to do what is right, please just do what I stated earlier to you in a previous question you posted, I will be praying for you daily, wait upon the Lord, He will set you free from this, as long as you keep steadfast with Him, and truly want to overcome this, and I know you do. Good Blessings to you. :)
2007-11-17 04:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by †ℱαìtℎ7♥ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's really good that you see homosexuality as a sin. The present culture has become so sinful, that much sin is presented as normal and healthy.
I would suggest you contact a group such as Exodus International that helps people leave the homosexual lifestyle. If you could find a good Christian counselor who has experience in this area it might help. Maybe Exodus could direct you. http://www.exodus.to/
Ask God for wisdom and strength. All things are possible to them that believe. God bless you.
2007-11-17 04:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by jessalynn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can not be a homosexual Christian, you are either one or the other, 2Corinthians 5:17 "If any man be in Christ he is a new creature". Will you be tempted, Yes, will you fall, Yes. However this will not become a problem as you have said, because once God forgives, the sin is gone and so is the guilt. Since it is still a problem for you, you need to read Romans 10:9-13 and do as it says here and you will find how much your life will change.
2007-11-17 04:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by preacherswife 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The Bible doesn't prohibit "homosexuality," it prohibits sex out of marriage. Gay, straight, what ever -- sex out of marriage is wrong.
Being gay isn't a sin. Being straight isn't a sin.
Having sex outside of marriage is the sin. Lust is the sin.
Go back, and read the Bible carefully, from this perspective and you'll see what I mean (there are only a few mentions in the NT, and Jesus is silent about homosexuality. But Jesus does say a lot about sex outside marriage.)
You mentioned in another question the "act" of homosexuality . . . Homosexuality is a sexual orientation, not an act.
Try to understand WHO you are isn't WHAT you are.
You're a sinner, we all are. Get over it, Jesus already has. But on the other hand, think that every time you sin, you're driving one more nail into Christ's hands so that he can take that sin from you.
You mention you "keep messing up." No, you keep having sex out of marriage, and gay, straight, college-age, adultery, or high school sweethearts, sex out of marriage is a sin. Unless you're living with a partner, I'd bet that you have to take steps to commit the sexual sin . . .stop taking those steps.
Godspeed.
2007-11-17 04:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by jimmeisnerjr 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
New Christian,
If you are not a member of a Bible-Based Church find one in your general area and begin studying with their members. Through those close ties you can be strengthened. Pray that GOD will assist you in staying in HIS WORD. You should also continually read, study, and obey HIS WORD each and every day if you possibly can. I would be glad to assist you in finding a group of Christians in your area if you would like. Just drop me a note and I will write you back.
Paul wrote in the Letter to the Roman churches that "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD". We all sin but we all continue to ask HIS Forgiveness and attempt to work in repenting (turning) from those sins. Have a great weekend.
Thanks,
Eds
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2007-11-17 04:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Eds 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This isn`t a sin, the Bible doesn`t say anything about homosexuality, its not a creation of the devil, don`t prejudice yourself, its actually the ancient christian church who burnt homosexuals, its not a sin, if a priest tell you its a sin its a sign of his ignorance, try talking to a younger priest.
Its nature, the church though is founded by Jesus isn`t perfect since its run by humans, give up your prejudice and accept yourself who you are and understand that you love God, you`re quite faithful, considering that you actually want to stay in God`s presence, the biggest Saints sometimes wonder if they`re going to end in hell, its a sign of great faith, see if you can find an educated christian community in your surroundings.
2007-11-17 04:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I scrolled down on the answers, and read some "untrue, blind leading the blind" answers. Shame on them. Then I read the answer from "Kait". That is the answer you need to take heed on. You definitely need a Mentor. You can't do it alone; you need someone highly spiritual, walking in the light of Christ Jesus. You need all the help you can get; from Heaven above and from an earthly blessed person (some call them angels on earth). Well prayers and hopes for you.
2007-11-17 05:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
when it comes down to it you cant help who you love you just have to hope that they love you back. and for desire . desire is desire. not much you can do about it. most ppl only fallow the parts of the bible they agree with . such as your not suppose to judge atohers but love them ne way. hmm well allot of christians judge and judge allot . even thought the have done thigns that are some times much worse. god only ask that that you have faith in him and be kind to others. and asfor the facts of the bible. god nor jesus wrote n e of. absolutly none. what the bible is that we have to day and read was written by men. and is nothign mroe then memories dreams and impressions of what happend nadn what is right. god gave us the gift of free will. the question is not does god like who you sleep with but do you liek tham. as for god. he made from the mold of him. remember the bibble says that to. you are of his image. his perfect being. you have not shed the blood of the inocent. and no matter what i say or 5000 people tell you. you have to make it right in your slef. n another thing its not like you can choose not to be gay and choose to be striaght. it doesnt work like that you just are. you have to learn and relize to love your self and accept your self only than perhaps you can find joy.
2007-11-17 04:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by zourvina 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you a question. You said you are a Christian right? We can read over and over what the Bible said to us and or we can memorized the whole Scripture and there is nothing change in our life. It is mean that the bible is dead? No! What we need to do is to put into practice little at the time. It sound like you are the end of your road. I believe that you are ready to surrender this to God. When you do that, give Him thanks for He died for our sin and rose for our eternal life. If you have a homosexual friends, get rid of them and do not hang around with them anymore. Change the way you think and do not look back. Remember Lot wife "But Lot's wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt. " Gen. 19:6 they left Soddom and Gommora "Sin City" and God said don't look back. It takes to look back because it has a tendency to pull you back in and Satan will remind you how happy are you doing sin but the consequences of that sin is painful. Paul said "Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. (Romans 8:6 Whole Chapter)
The mind of sinful man [ Or mind set on the flesh] is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace; Renewing our mind means change direction how you think, keep reminding your self what Jesus died for you. Get rid of your homo friend(s). Let your mind be control with the Holy Spirit not your own thought. I know it is not easy but with Christ all thing is possible. Think this if you are pleasing your self, you are not pleasing God. "When a man's ways are pleasing to the LORD, he makes even his enemies live at peace with him." Proverbs 16:7. Crucify your self daily! I know you know what is this means right? On the time you wake up first thing in the morning surrender your self to God and so be it. Let Him direct your path and yield to His direction and you will experience the Holy Spirit Power.
Father we come before you right now I am lifting up to you my bretheren and we pray that the Power of the Holy Spirit will crucify this homosexual life on the cross and the blood of Christ will bind if forever. Jesus, I'm asking you to filled him with your Spirit to overcome this situation, we give you all the praise and glory in Jesus Name we pray.
May the blessing, love, joy, peace of our Lord Jesus Christ reign in your heart always...
In Christ
2007-11-17 05:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by gj3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear NewChris...,
Lavendar, Jessalyn..., and Kait are all on the right track. Listen to them. Sadly most of the others here are not.
When it comes to the internet, I believe that the Lord can help you through folks like me, websites like peoplecanchange, exodusinternational, and Yahoo! discussion groups like promisekeepers and exgaymensministry, since these resources have helped me, as having been a Christian same sex attracted struggler, tremendously over the years. But, what proves to be most helpful of all are two resources that involves non-virtual, "enfleshed" compassion found in a men's accountability group. I have gotten most of my healing and growth, when it comes to the Lord utilizing the fellowship of others, in these two ways.1) A parachurch ministry that would have this resource available for you can be found possibly through an ExodusInternational, Homosexuals Anonymous, or Focus on the Family Love Won Out ministry referral to your local area. Usually, a local Bible-believing church would house such a paraministry. 2) A local church that in itself is conducive to being healing and relationally oriented, like the priestly ministry of our Lord Jesus, and not as much politically, or mega-church minded. These local church bodies are Bible-believing, but usually small to mid-size fellowships, independent, possibly even charismatic in their style of worship and ministry. Check out a Vineyard or Metro Christian fellowship, or any other independent local body with the name ending with "Christian fellowship", a main-denominational charismatic local body of Anglicans, Methodists, Lutherans, Presbyterians, etc. or any urban evangelical local body of believers.
The key is confession to others who represent Christ! The Apostle James commanded us in chapter 5 verse 16 to confess our sins (the Greek word is actually "weaknesses") to one another, and to pray for one another that we might be healed. Since doing this, brother Newchris..., I have brought all my baggage into the light of Christ, and He then began to heal and strengthen me, since the powers of darkness (mostly involving shame) couldn't have any longer their grip on me, and enough influence to continue triggering me into relapsing, as you still unfortunately are experiencing. For the sins of the body, like sex, drugs and alcohol addictions, this is a must! Ask anyone in the anonymous groups, such as AA, NA, SA, and, yes, HA, and they'll tell you that this is so profoundly true. Virtual reality helps, yes, but flesh and blood communication and love and aceptance is God's primary way of healing us same sex attracted Christians.
If I can be of any more help to you, I would be glad to receive a private message from you through my Yahoo! Answers ID box. I am also a moderator on Ex-gay International (ExGayInt)and Ex-gay Discussion Board (ExGDBd). You are in my prayers tonight, my brother!
2007-11-17 09:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋