help i havent had a proper boyfriend and i think its the way i look i look at every girl and think they are nicer than me because they are ....and all my friends are better looking and they all have boyfriends i dont know what to do anymore i feel awful and even after i get my hair done and put on makeup it doesnt work anymore i always want to look like someone else anyone but now its getting out of hand because everytime i like myself it doesnt work guys just dont like me at all and its because the way i look so should i just give up on them ? ..x
2007-11-17 03:20:31 · 21 answers · asked by angel with wings 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Be your own person and accept your good and bad points.
Be yourself, take an interest in the people you meet and you will find a boyfriend. Dont try too hard!
2007-11-17 03:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know believe it or not confidence helps if u don't like ur self and don't think of ur self as attrative it deff. shows and if u don't like ur self then how do u axspect men 2 like u honey i'm not trying to mean to u i had the exact problem but believe it or not there is someone out there for everyone and if u r going out and acting like u r the uglies thing on earth u r never going to get a man may b u need to talk to someone about the way u feel bout urself because obviosly theres some kind of issue with u and the way u think u look and now a days people only go out with other people for the way they look then theres that rare case where u will find a real man that deosn't go 4 looks and that is the perfect real man because they r not shallow and they will love u 4 u not e=what u look like it will be 4 ur heart not how much better u can ,make himlook by being by his side i'm a model so if u think that pretty people don't have problems i still don't think i'm really pretyy but i love myself n e ways and that's what u need to learn 2 do is find some kind of mediem and go with it nobody is perfect and nobody will ever be i think being a nice caring person and smart inteeligent is way more attractive to most men than a hot sexy bay watch babe because she can be drop dead hott and be dumb i know iw ould only want her fro one thing verse a smart girl that u can have sexual fun with and she can hold an intelligent convo after words it's way sexier don't worry bout this all right now focus on the impotant stuff and by the way nobody ever finds love by looking all the time true love finds u when u least expect it don't keep looking he'll find u maybe not today or tomorrow maybe not even next weel but somebody id meant to be with u and he';ll be the one to find u so relax ur beautifel trust me and he'll (mr right)c it 2 when it's time good luck sweetheart
2007-11-17 11:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by ANOTHER CRAZEY CHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, you shouldn't try to look like other people, or wish you were like them. The best thing to be is unique!
I'm sure your much more beautiful than you believe, and if any guy rejects you because of the way you look then he isn't worth your time! Take things slowly and believe that one day Mr Right will find you. Maybe you should stop trying to find someone and stop stressing out about it. I can't say I have had a "proper boyfriend" either... I guess by that you mean someone who you have truly connected with?
Anyways, best of luck, come what may, Princess Lola x
2007-11-17 11:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trying too hard. It is not that important to have a boyfriend right now (I'm assuming you are still in school, Jr. High or High School?). How do boyfriends improve your life? I am not a guy basher or anything like that by all means (I liked having a boyfriend sometimes).
There is probably nothing wrong with YOU. Guys at your age are usually really immature. Peer pressure also plays a big part in everything that happens at this time of your life. Try not to let what others do get to you. Be yourself and you will be great.
2007-11-17 11:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by memorykeeper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys can sense the way you feel about yourself. Stop looking in that mirror and wanting to look like someone else. You are probably nice looking and just don't realize it. If you want a guy, it is in the attitude.
2007-11-17 11:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you...not being like everyone else is a gift....i mean are the girls u compare urself with stuck up toothpicks who judge everyone else around them to make them feel better...you are beautiful in ur own way...be confindent b/c being confindence stands out and when u walk confindent guys notice you...dont always put yourself down b/c as you keep doin in your going to really start thinking that your not good enough...and how can you find someone to love you if you dont love you....i bet your drop dead beautiful... its ok if prince charming hasn't found you yet...just keep looking and have faith...b/c when you least expect it...you find him right under your nose...
2007-11-17 11:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by kayla b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are attracted to all different types of girls. I liked the ones with goofy teeth and big noses, and I'm not joking. Conventionally pretty girls always left me cold. So cheer up, you're probably quite good looking anyway. Sometimes it's the pretty girls who have no self esteem. Lighten up and go easy on yourself.
2007-11-17 11:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by ketkonen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know EXACTLY how u feel!!! email me if u wna talk about it!! lol im 16, and yeh all my mates r sooooooo pretty especially my best mate....wen we're walkin down town or wotever and a car honks...i kno its 4 her, not 4 me. but ive jsut come 2 except that yeh i mite not be the best lookin person, but do i really want sum1 that only likes me 4 wot i look like?? u kno wot i mean. now ive found sum1 great, he thinks im pretty =D and he likes me 4 who i am. i gave up lookin 4 guys a long time ago....and once i stopped lookin, i found the perfect guy =D
dont give up yet...sooner or later ul find that perfect 1 =D
2007-11-17 21:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up. guys are stubborn, and shy. My boyfrined said he liked me for like 6 months before he ot the courage to ask me out, and I'm not exctly the best looking person you will ever meet. don't give up. Try having fun hanging out with some guys. Talk to them and make them interested in you. They'll warm up to you eventually.
Have fun, and good luck =)
2007-11-17 11:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by kray_zee_cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with u >Nowadays people don't know what they want anymore.It could be that guys r just intimidated by u.Maybe it's not that ur friends r better looking,maybe it's that they are giving guys what they want.
2007-11-17 11:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋