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I just moved into a new flat 2 weeks ago.

He lives across the street,. but our flats are quite close. He has been staring into my room ever since, hell he is doing it right now. I am sick and tired of keeping my drapes shut cause of him. Any ideas on how to shook him off?

2007-11-17 00:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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This isn't really considered stalking, but it is considered invasion of privacy. I would have the local police force take a moment to speak with him and explain the situation. If he continues, press charges.

2007-11-17 01:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Well, if he is making you uncomfortable, I'd confront him in public about his inappropriate peep show. If he continues to do it, alert authorities and tell them what you just told us. They should put a stop to it. It's not fair that you can't feel comfortable in your own home. You shouldn't have to keep the drapes closed, and be made to feel like a damn vampire.

I had a stalker once, while in community college. He would be standing outside of my speech class all the time and sometimes the class would glance out and see him having invisible fights with nobody. Wildly punching the air and the embarrassing thing is, the whole class knew he was there for me.

They would all burst out into wild laughter and he would be there everyday! He knew my schedule better than I did, and my teacher said that she was going to call the police one day, when she saw him walking behind me, because she had a student in the past who had a stalker and wanted to take better precautions this time. I knew him, but not well enough for him to be following me around like he did. He made me want to put on a pair of glasses with a mustache attached during most of my junior college days. Best wishes!

-Knowledge24

2007-11-17 01:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Keep your drapes open and do it so he can see all the action! If you watch each other then you will have some thing in common. Try this . You may enjoy it. Some day in the future you two will laugh about how you met. It'll be a good story to tell your grandchildren. Go for it girl. Enjoy. :--#)

2007-11-17 01:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-12-09 00:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You could attempt to confront him and let him know how you are feeling. But if he is actually being a peeping tom then you can report him to the police and may even want to get a restraining order against him if it continues. Best of luck in resolving this issue.

2007-11-17 01:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

Everytime you see him looking in slam the drapes closed. He will get the message.

2007-11-17 01:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i would raise this issue with the police, if it was me, let them go over to talk to him, to ask him why he is so interested into looking over towards your flat, avoid talking to him, too as if he is weird, ithe may take it as a signal that you like him, lock your doors on a night, make yourself safe, but leave it too the law, to solve okay.

2007-11-17 01:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Go to the police and have this blottered.
So for any future attempts, he will be immediately arrested.

2007-11-17 02:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by kyrios 3 · 0 0

try the police

2007-11-17 01:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by ruby_alabar 3 · 0 0

nancys having the same problem below just report him!! or confront him!!

http://youtube.com/watch?v=0_r20AptZTI

2007-11-17 01:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by hdhsj 1 · 0 0

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