All my friends are girls, I fancy the lot of them but I have no bad intentions and my friends know that and the only reason I hang about with them is because I think they have a higher level of maturity then most guys do:
On eof my friends is my exgirlfriend and she's my bestfriend and we're really close but her Dad won't allow her to hang about with a single guy and seen as I'm 15 and my exgirlfriend is 12 going on 13 her Dad would probably have my throat if he found out that I hang out with her.
My other bestfriend is 13 going on 14 and we hang about outside of school and in school because her Dad doesn't mind but he does have something against me and once yelled at me for no reason when I was talking to my friend on the phone.
And alot of my other friends' Dads have something against me and I don't know why?
2007-11-17 00:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My exgirlfriend's Dad refuses to give any guy a chance.
2007-11-17 00:28:21 · update #1
They are worried you would lead them astray and to things they should not be doing as you are male and older than them. You could try speaking to them and explaining that your intentions are only as a friend and that you have no intentions of getting them involved in anything else. You have nothing to loose and if anything their dads would have more respect for you for speaking to them.
2007-11-17 00:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For all the same reasons I said last time when you were talking about your exes dad specifically, they are judging you by their own standards, and they know what they were like as young lads, and what they would have been after. Silly them for judging a book by its cover. It is less likely to be personal than the fact that you are a guy and they just cannot figure you out.
2007-11-17 04:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tefi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you guys are just friends, and nothing more, if probably makes the father feel uncomfortable. With Charley, her dad might not want you to hang out with her because you are about 2 years older than her and it just changes everything when you are the opposite gender. I think that their dads just dont want you to be with their daughters because they think that you might be more than friends and they are being protective of their daughters. I totally understand what you are going through because when my best friend was a guy, even though we were just friends, my mom would always be like okay i know that you are just friends but you arent allowed to close the door when you are together.
so i know that you and your friends are nothing more than just close friends, but when you are a different gender, it just changes everything. i know it shouldnt change anything but it does. eventually, their dads will come to respect you though. they probably just dont know you well enough so they judge you on first glance. try to get a chance to know them and talk to them so that they might like you more.
2007-11-17 18:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to sound mean , but remember you told me about your step mum , who's a few years older than you and your dad who's like your step mum's dads own age ! then theres your sisters who are gayish and have a phobia of girls ! so it could be those things.people may find those thing disturbing. email me soon have not heard from you 4 ages !
2007-11-17 01:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u would do the same exact thing if your daughter was 12 and some boy was hanging around her
it dont matter what age ...he's her little girl and he wants her to keep her innocence forever
2007-11-17 00:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥girl♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dads can be very over protective towards their Daughters. You have to expect to be frowned upon. Remember they were never young!!
2007-11-17 00:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Spiny Norman 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask their dads if you could talk to them and ask them why then explain to them that you only have good intentions ,most dads want the best for their children.in this day and time it pays to be safe.
2007-11-17 00:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, you can't
please everyone all the time, if you are a good guy it will shine thru, besides daddy's are protective of there little darling girls ..always*
2007-11-17 00:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They all remember what they were like at your age. lol
2007-11-17 00:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jadore 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not you, perents always seem to want to protect girls
2007-11-17 01:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by bluebrancall 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋