Im 24 and never had a look in with guys in my early twenties i had alot of problems ie unemployment, feeling down etc so didnt feel bothered. But now i feel ive missed out on that part of my life and dont know where to look for a potential partner. It worries me as im scared i wont find anyone or that theyd laugh at my inexperience
2007-11-16 23:20:28 · 19 answers · asked by josephine123446 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
harsh but true...
get in line.
there are many like you.
just as my mother said to me once: just have fun being singel while youve got it!
2007-11-16 23:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is going to laugh at your inexperience? Has anyone ever done this? Surely not anyone worth being with...
You really need to stop obsessing about this. You are building things up to be a lot more than they are - and whenever you get a sniff of a possible partner, all of a sudden its a huge deal and you obsess about how much they do / do not like you. This isn't going to help anyone!
I promise you, people will easily pick up on this a lot more than inexperience... for example, if you meet a boy and then you start looking into term times for his fiance to see when she is back - that is bad and scary and intense :)
2007-11-19 07:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position as you, I'm 24 nearly 25 and never had a boyfriend either, you'd probably be surprised how many people out there still haven't had a relationship with someone by their mid to late twenties (though many might not like to admit it) Don't get too worried and remember you're not alone. Any decent guy won't laugh at you just cos you haven't had a boyfriend yet, it means your sensible and not sleeping around with just anyone just to say you've been with someone, be proud of who you are!
2007-11-17 09:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of guy are you looking for? Church is a good place if you are looking for a good one. I have found that if you look for them at a bar or club they tend to be cheaters. Inexperience is not always a bad thing. Some prefer it. Watch some dirty movies and do what they do, or if you find a good man he will be happy to teach you.
2007-11-17 07:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one would laugh, there is someone that would find that endearing. Not only that but if someone loves you they will love you regardless. I wouldn't call it unlucky that you haven't met anyone, perhaps you are not letting people in. Really look at yourself and see how you act around others, do you allow others to be drawn to you or do you put up a wall. I hope it works out for you.
2007-11-17 07:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u tried datin sites that r free that way u can chat to people and gain some confidence in talkin or how about going to college or doin some courses at night or even part time that will be another way of meetin people, u r still young dont worry happens to us all im 37 and still lookin for mr right i wish u good luck in ur hunt it will come dont worry so much
2007-11-17 07:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by susiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste ur time trying to find some one. Use your time to make a great life for yourself. Fill it with friends and activities that you enjoy. Trust me, if your having fun and look like you enjoy life some one will come your way when you least expect it!!!
2007-11-17 07:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 24 you have hardly missed out on life. maybe you look to desperate...or needy. stop looking so hard... just make your self accessible... attending activities... or events men frequent. by the way...these days inexperience is refreshing.
2007-11-17 07:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you have polenty of time. A good place to look is at classes for special interests - so you have interests in common.
You don't have to tell anyone you are inexperienced - its nobody's business but yours. Keep to yourself what you don't want passed around. good luck.
2007-11-17 07:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Solusia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better late than never. If you are eager, someone is surely there who is trying hard to get you, have patience till he comes in contact with you at the right time.
2007-11-17 07:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you need to get some self esteem. Also don't worry someone will find you one day.
2007-11-17 07:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋