So I finally give up. Heres a brief scenario of my situation. I met a girl and we met at the bars a lot over the weekends and always ended up making out. I am in college by the way and I decided to ask this girl out. The first date went great and it ended with a kiss. I felt that she had potential but maybe im wrong. I have been trying to hang out with her again the past week, yet no response from her. I really dont know what to do. There are other girls i can be with but i like her more for some reason. What do I do? Do i go ahead and be with these other girls or do I wait?
2007-11-16 19:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by james g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you kidding? Get laid all you can. Once she sees you pulling tail left and right, she'll come begging. She'll probably even offer to pay.
One of the strangest things about women is that when you've got nothing going on, they won't touch you. But once you're getting laid it's like being a pinball in the bumper-zone. They start coming out of the woodwork.
Don't blame me, I don't understand it either.
2007-11-16 19:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by GreasyMadness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was something she wanted to do more often, she'd hook up with you. Don't take it personally, it's not easy to find a good match. Make sure she has contact info if she wants to reach you and keep looking. Pestering her and seeming desperate won't get you anywhere. You've tried, she was at a bar and in the mood, and you had a good evening, but that was that. Let her know how to reach you and then move on.
There are other fish in the sea and frankly, it's fun to keep fishing. It's also good to have one partner, but it's not easy to find that one partner.
Good luck!
2007-11-17 03:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by T J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate don't waste your time, if she ain't interested move on to the next conquest, ha ha, nah serious mate, if your in college, your only a kid so have fun why its there, coz it dries up once you are married, not that I'm married but you hear that all the time, sow some wild oats, cheers.
2007-11-17 04:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by 'THE PROUD TIGER' grrrrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
james g.
if she is giving u the cold shoulder? suggest going out with the others. but still stay in touch with her - she's prob. in deep thought about other things.....when the mood is correct you'll and shee'll know.
2007-11-17 03:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by darcyaf1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really liker u will wait but it depends on the girl too. move on for now see what happens. if she comes back, she doesnt need to know about the other girls
2007-11-17 03:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chardonnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do like this chic then find her weaknesses so she could feel something different and eventually could make the two of you know each other and get closer. :)0
2007-11-17 03:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Judezen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it group hug in the showers tonight!
2007-11-17 03:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by bambammc24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and tell her that you are interested in other people and that you won't be dating her again.
2007-11-17 03:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋