Okay i was in a long term relatioship wit diz guy and then it wasnt working out so we broke up buh i still have love for em buh im not in love wit him....so now im wit dis other guy and hes really sweet out spoken cute and just haz a nice personality buh i cant really open up to him bcus im afraid i might end up hurt like my other relationship and and i act nervous around him because of that and i think if i dont open up to him i might lose him and i dont want that i mean i really kinda like em what should i do??????KISSES
2007-11-16 17:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Kendrick S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tune in to Him...........listen to him and whats going on in his life.......dont focus on your fears........
its like if you have a spot on your shoes.......when you draw attention to it then everyone notices ...........
Take your time........mabe you need to heal etc........be confident in who you are.............you dont have to have someone to be YOU........
I like the movie the diary of a mad black woman.......the girl said momma "he was my everything..........
her mother said......."God is your everything............"
WOW so true...........I have to remember that sometimes ....
I dont have to have a guy to be fullfilled........when you stop looking at that.......things will just come naturaly and you will be more attractive to the new guy...........good luck
2007-11-16 17:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by sarah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have ecognised the problem is the biggest step. Im the same. My husband left me 9 months ago and i was devastated. For the past month i have been dating this guy who I like alot - but i am paranoid and worried and miserable that he will hurt me like my husband did - so i have backed off. However if i dont change my behaviour I will lose him too. Its normal to love and care for past people in our lives - but you have to learn not to let these experiences impact on your new or future relationships - how would you feel if he didnt treat you as you but thought you were like his ex girlfriend? - relax and enjoy each day as it comes...and i will try and do the same xxx
2007-11-17 01:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is difficult to read. I know you know how to spell properly. Please do so.
That being said, I don't think there's any virtue in "opening up" to a guy about whom you have mixed feelings. There's nothing wrong with holding out for a guy who makes you more than "really kinda like" him.
2007-11-17 01:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by July 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its meant to be they will love you unconditionally there would be nothing you can do or say to them that they would leave except you telling them to leave thats what soul mates are ............Goodnight
2007-11-17 02:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by saveitok 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋