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Question

Im 20 female and a virgin. I am hoping to lose my virginity soon and am worried about not being able to orgasism several times? How can i?? Also, I have found out that im a kinky girl...is it good to go kinky the first time? or slow and normal ?? 10 pts to the mature answer. Thanks!

Answer 1

to b able to orgasism many times first off u need practice through sex or just practicing by yourself. u hav eot learn your body so u can learn how to recover properly, and quickly without ruining the moment. As far as being kinky the first time HEGZ YEAH!!! its your first time if u want tha guy to stick a cork in yo but and a apple in yo mouth while he punch u n yo back (if u like that) then make him do it to just live in the moment! slow and normal is exactly like how it sounds BORING!!! be spontanious and crazy with it, do everythin u wanted to do for these 20 years, let ur female instinct take u over.

Answer 2

You say "20 female virgin" like you've committed some crime or it's a bad thing well its not. Why are you hoping to lose it "soon". You've waited this long why not continue to wait until you are sure he is the right guy. Don't rush it, in fact be proud that you have not let peer pressure convince you to do something you weren't and may still not be ready for.

However, if you are set on losing your virginity you need to take some things in consideration.
1. Use protection - there are disease out there today that will kill you.
2. Make sure the person you decide to give up your commitment to - is committed to you and only you - know their HIV status before taking a chance.
3. Make sure he respects you and understands clearily your expectations.
4. Make sure you understand why you are making the decision to give up your virginity and you can live with it after.
5. Men say they won't a freak in the bed, but if you are a freak with him before he is committed to the relationship you become the one nighter, booty call or a long list of other things that I'm sure you would rather not be labelled.
6. You should tell who ever you choose knows up front that you are a virgin, he needs to clearily understand that if you decide in the heat of it all to change your mind and not go through with it. He will respect that and not force himself on you or make you do something that you did not fully agree to. This would be call date rape even if you initially agree and then change your mind.

What does kinky mean? are you into whips and chains or other acts that may not be associated a with traditional positions.
Orgasisms are different for everyone, the first time the likeliness of you having an orgasism is slim and multiorgasism are very rare. This is a skill that is learned over years and a larger number of women never have mulitiple orgasism.

Hope this helps! Remember don't do anything that doesn't feel right - in other words if you have to question if it is the right thing to do it is likely not the right thing to do.

Answer 3

well every woman is different so you will either orgasm several times or you wont( you might only have 1 or 2). some women go all their lives without an orgasm. it all depends on what turns you on and stimulates you the most. for some women its penetration others its clitoral stimulation. as for being kinky how do you know if you are kinky if youre a virgin? and as for the first time you have sex it will be painful but does get easier and usually better after that . you just have to have a partner who is willing to learn right along with you(if hes inexperienced) if hes experienced you want someone who understands that youre a virgin and maybe he can teach you some things.there are creams and stuff you can take to increase your orgasms but again some women are multi orgasmic while others arent. sometimes it just takes you being with the right partner to become multi orgasmic.

Answer 4

No. It is better to be slow and normal. Save the kinky stuff for later, no need to run him off before you get started. Concerning organisming, it varies depending on the individual. As a guy, we almost always orgasism. Some woman have trouble, either needing duel stimuli or pressure. If you start slow it will be better for you and allow you body to get accustomed to his size. As you progress you can add variations in your sex act (always start slow or using a lubricate). Regardless of what you do, do it safe, otherwise the outcome could last 18yrs or more. Good luck and have fun.

Answer 5

From what I have learned in my sex class women take longer to reach orgasisms so "clit" stimulation will help boost up your climax. I would say go slow first and then get more kinky the next few times you had sex, you dont want your guy to think your not a virgin and a slut. oh yeah guys think its sexy that girls are confident in bed, so dont be shy to take charge every once in a while. good luck and hopes this helps.

Answer 6

I think multiple orgasms will be the least of your concerns for your first time. Typically, the first time is a bit uncomfortable. I hope that is not the case for you, but if it is truly your first time, it probably won't feel as great as it will later on. If I were you, I wouldn't try to get all kinky. Just take it 'slow and normal', as you put it. Good luck in all your sexual endeavors!

Answer 7

Don't be in a rush to lose your virginity, once its gone u cant get it back!!

Try not to worry so much about whats best for your first time and just go with the flow. Just make sure you are on the pill or/and use protection.

You'll learn what works for you with time and experience. Foreplay usually helps and don't be afraid to tell your guy what you like and what you don't.

Good luck!

Answer 8

Wow. For a girl it might. But I don't know if a guy could do that. After 5 or 6 times in one day...it hurts a little to orgasm. Your body is making sperm slower than you are getting rid of it. I would say 10-15 times in a weekend would be about max for a guy.

Answer 9

OK, take a deep breath...hold it....and exhale.
Relax girl, don't stress about this. Just go with it and whatever happens will happen.
Sex is a journey, you will grow and change, discover new things and rediscover old ones.
Don't worry about your orgasm (or orgasms, you damned lucky women you) right now. You know how to give yourself one, I assume, so you need to show your lovers how to do it. Show them, tell them, guide them, whatever. The good ones will pick up on it right away and find new ways to please you.
But for the first time, don't worry. Having the guy go down on you for a bit before penetration always helps things move along but just relax and let things happen.
Good luck!

Answer 10

Some people do multiple orgasm and some don't it isn't something you can learn to do its just natural. usually if you only have one it is very intense and if you have multiple it isn't as intense. Your not going to want to be to kinky on your first time but you'll know what to do and how far to go,its a very natural thing. good luck and be sure it is definitely what you want before you do it.