she is more in love with me then iam with her and the good thing about it is we have alot in common so that could help in a relationship but my question is ..is she too young to date a 21 year guy like me?is it illegal ?
also she going to be 18 year next year so that cant be that bad..right?
2007-11-16 13:07:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK yes, legal . . . in most states if you have sex now, you are breaking the law and risk being labeled a sex offender.
I would continue to date, probably make a point to develop a relationship with her parents so they feel good about it, and then wait until she's at least 18 before you have sex.
Do that and it's all good!
Don't listen to most of the people below me. They are ill-informed, or they assume you can't date without sex. The age of consent refers to sexual intercourse, not dating. Don't have sex and you break no laws. Pretty simple. Plus some states the age of consent is 16.
Don't assume "the cops have nothing better to do" and just have sex with her though. You piss off her parents and you will be arrested and charged with indecency with a minor, and be labeled a sex offender. It's not worth it.
2007-11-16 13:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 datin a 20 almost 21 yr old an yes we waited till i was 18 2 hv ***! totally use some form of birthcontrol yeah i kno its nt 100% but hey at least we used it an he was such a nice guy an still is till this guy i married this guy an didnt get hurt by him so it really based on him an u i guess from wat u say hes a nice guy an has a job so dont let it worrie u injoy it an the only 1s 2 mk itt nt wrk r u 2
2016-05-23 22:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i dont find anything wrong..maybe illegal for sex but still the 4 years difference is not a problem. I myself dated my bf at the age of 16 and he was 20.. now im 23 and we are still together.
2007-11-16 16:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that at all. I am 18 and date a 22yo...so its the same thing really. And believe me, the cops have much more important things to be worrying about, so for the legal issue, I am sure they would turn a blind eye.
2007-11-16 13:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yes, the handy age of consent chart, don't leave home without. If your in a state with age 18 laws, well I guess you'll be doing some interstate travel, now won't you :-)
http://www.actwin.com/eatonohio/gay/consent.htm
2007-11-16 13:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st it depends on her parents. They are her legal guardian. If they approve maybe. But for safety reason, I would stop dating her and look her up when she turns 18.
2007-11-16 13:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay . . . but potentially dangerous. If you honk off either her or her parents, the sex-offender label will be branded upon your forehead for all time.
Can you two keep your hands to yourselves until her birthday? I didn't think so . . .
2007-11-16 13:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's jailbait - wait until she's 18
2007-11-16 13:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JAILBAIT, wait until she's 18.
2007-11-16 13:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...well..that is normal..that age seems not too girl anymore to court or to ask date to someone...so go on...and goodluck...
2007-11-16 13:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by litz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋