i am so in love with this girl...we dated and things ended up not going right because i said some wrong things..ive never told this to anybody but i cry somtimes...i feel like such a pu$$y..but i cant help it..i dont know how to make this stop im 25 years old and its been 5 months..ive never cried over a girl and i consider myself a tuff guy..
2007-11-16 12:53:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, guys here will tell you that your a Pu**y,
while on the other hand, the women here will tell you are very sensitive and it's ok for a man to cry.
You know what?
Men do cry whether they want to believe it or not, they just don't go around telling people about it.
I think you are normal!
2007-11-16 12:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 2 great boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im Feeling The Same Way For My Girl And I Have To Tell You Its Very Very Very Hard...And Extremly Painfull...Now My Advice Is To Let Her Know That U Care About Her. Be Emotional. When U See Her, Look At Her The Way U Know Show That Ur Sorry...If U Drive Around Her House or On The Street, Play Love Songs.(like "Wait For You" by Elliot Yamin) A Great Song For This Situation! She'll Know It...Just Dont Overdo It Again. Dont Drive Fast Too Either. Try To Comminucate With Her, Like.....E-mail Her...Talk On The Phone, Chat With Her, Or Text Message Her...Tell Her Your Sorry And It Wont Happen Again, Tell Her "IF Theres Anyway You Can Find In Your Heart To Forgive Me...Then Please Do" Tell Her That U Cant Stop Crying...And Tell her That U Can't Take It Anymore...o yea here the link to the song http://www.mediafire.com/?9xek5t2y1m5g go there and download it if u want....well thers a lot u can do more but im out of ideas....good luck!
2007-11-16 21:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Section 8 Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...your choice of words leave alot to the imagination. I don't think you being sensitive, would make you a vagina. It would make you a very careing and loveable guy. Please don't put yourself down over not doing the right things in your relationship. Now you know what may have ruined your relationship and the best thing you can do is try not to make the same mistakes again. I know you can be a tuff guy but now you need to move on and find a new love. She is out there right now waiting for you to find her. Dry those tears, put on your best smile and go find her. There is a girl out there that would be lucky to have a nice sensitive strong man like you.
2007-11-16 21:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make you a pussy if you cry as long as your not sobbing away all the time to the point where its out of control. its normal to cry when you have very Strong feelings for someone and things are not going the way you planned, the fact that you have cried over her tells me your really care for her because you have said yourself you have never cried over another girl. by any chance does she still like you? have you apologized to her heart to heart without being all macho? if you haven't do it but try not to cry when you talk to her face to face but show her your not all macho but can be that sensitive guy. girls like it it shows your human but still that strong tough sexy guy as well. don't worry things will work out sooner or later. best of luck.
2007-11-16 21:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man. i know what ur going thru. me and my gf recently broke up, and i still cry about it. dont worry, ur not a pu$$y or a softie or anything like that. you will stop in time. just try not to cry in public or anything. its ok to cry. just keep a box of tissues around. trust me, things will get better. and just cause u cry doesnt mean ur a pu$$y, it means your human and u can show emotions, just like women. you will feel better in time. and ull get over her, eventually. just stop thinking about her, thats the first step.
2007-11-16 21:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by kareem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry about it. Crying is a normal human emotion and its good for you. Keeping things bottled up inside will really hurt you in the end
2007-11-16 20:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what did you say to her? You need to find some closier with yourself. Try to talk to her and let her know that even though you have been broken up for quite some time, you want to tell her how sorry you are for the awful things you said to her and even if she cant forgive you, you at least wanted her to know that.
2007-11-16 21:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by xoangeleyes23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a sissy to put it in other trems but some times it takes stuff like saying the wrong thing to relize how you really feel . now its up to you to try to make things right if you really cared a bout her you wil find away or at least , now you can learn fromthis with the next girl you really care about
2007-11-16 21:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by strawberry_short_cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
???? dude if you love the girl its normal to cry over something like that, your human right? im not saying to go start watching oprah & become all sensitive or something but yes its normal to cry over something like that. You can still be tough & cry.
2007-11-16 21:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to much pride.. u must really care about her try to make it but if not with the next girl stop trying to be so tuff and open your heart to her...i hope it work between yall
2007-11-16 20:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋