GUYS ONLY..How do you usually feel when this happens?

Question

I told my female friend that liked her and we did go a date once..she did agree with a second we've been too busy to another yet.
Anyway, I asked her how she felt about me..she said she really likes me but she I am "not her type". She said she loves everythign about me but she said she is sure is interested in this other guys. She said we can friends for now but we should see what will happen in the future. I said that sounds alright..I couldn't think of anything else to say. I kinda feel like a *** just putting myself out in the open like.
How do the rest of you guys feel when happens to you? Because it sure doesn't feel good!
Thank you!

Answer 1

one time a bird crapped on my neck when I was golfing, that is the closest analogy I can come up with.

Answer 2

yeah your in the dreaded friend zone my friend. She tells you your the perfect guy but she only likes you as a friend. Then you see her go out with other guys who are complete losers. I believe these girls have some kind of mental block. With her it was that I was 19 and she was 24 she said it would be like dating her brother. It's sad but there is something blocking her from dating you. Ask her what it is. And see if you can over come it. Otherwise give up and move. Might as well use your time more effectively....then wasting it on her.

Answer 3

Like said above, rejection sucks.

However, I'd like to add another bit of advice: After one date is way too early to ask what she thinks of you. It ranks up there with asking the girl if you can kiss her. It's just stupid to do. (for that last one, just lean in slowly...if she backs off then you know the answer is no. Asking is just awkward for both people.)

Anyway...get to know each other a bit. How could she have gotten a good idea of the guy you are after one date? But, when you put yourself out there with geeky questions like that, you're almost asking to be shot down. Calm down on trying to force a connection so fast. What's the hurry?

Answer 4

Before I would feel bad. But as you grow old, these things happens. Why would you think you are leaving yourself open? It's natural and understandable. If you don't open up, then you really can't have a meaningful relationship if that's what you want.

Come to think of this, at least she is honest with you. Right now you're her backup. Women likes to have backup in case they make the wrong choice.

Answer 5

first off... this doesn't happen to Van G.

your problem was telling her that you liked her to begin with... If you have a connection with the girl then you dont need to ask her if she likes you... you just let it flow.

It sounds like you need to act more masculine because you kinda sound too feeling oriented. Girls like manly guys not touchy feely all the time guys.

I can give you more tips if you want but those are some basics.

Answer 6

Rejection sucks yeah, but only if you let it.

Good to put yourself out there, and sometimes you take a couple missed swings before a hit.

The best way I know to meet women is make friends with one, and meet her friends, their friends etc. It will all be cool.

Answer 7

I Feel You. Just Got Out Of A Relationship. For some reason something goes wrong. :(

Answer 8

I would say...you did the right thing...if you don't step up to the plate, you can never get a hit....She seems to like / respect you enough to be honest with you....appreciate that. As long as it is not weird for the two of you to continue hanging out...give it some time and she might see what a great guy you are and choose you..

Answer 9

At that point you should have told her "yeah, I don't think your good enough for me either...I like to many other women." But I know it's hard to come up with snappy come backs when your heart has just been damaged.

Answer 10

Hey, get over it bro. There are too many females out there that are attracted to you for what ever reason. It's her loss.