I don't want to be evil, but I like this guy and he's going out with someone, what should i do?
2007-11-16 12:45:45 · 42 answers · asked by nas t 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Psssh everyone's like yelling at me lol. I don't actually plan on breaking them up =D but I would like to know WHAT to do =)
2007-11-16 13:22:06 · update #1
spread rumors about the one person and then it will go to the guy then thye will say why are u going out with her shes so and so then he will feel pressure and do wat he needs to do
2007-11-16 12:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 12⤋
I don't think there is a good way to break up a couple. If they are happy together then they will certainly be less happy after they have been broken up. If you asked for my advice I'd say try to get over this person but you asked how to break them up and you wanted an answer.
If you don't particularly care about their happiness and you still want to break them up then you could try spreading rumors about one of them that might make the other want to end the relationship. If you're doing this because you want to date one of them than be careful how you do this. If he realizes that the rumors are false and that you were behind them than he definitely won't want you afterwards.
It's worth considering whether you want to be in a relationship like this.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 12:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by olleicua 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "don't want to be evil," bullsh**. You want the satisfaction & self-esteem that SHOULD come from within, to come from being "better than that bit**," and having taken someone's man.
If he leaves her for you, you won't trust him not to leave YOU for someone else. You'll go through YEARS of distrust.
Or did you not think about that, too busy thinking about how *good* you'd feel *for a while*?
Go on & do it if you 1. Need a false sense of self-importance. 2. Think it won't happen to you...likely by the same man if you two get together. & 3. Are really lacking in self-respect to the point where you think that with over 100 million males in the United States ALONE, there can't possibly be another one out there you're good enough to get with under terms acceptable by DECENT, RESPECTFUL, RESPECTABLE PEOPLE.
But then, maybe you know yourself better than anyone else, & if this is even a question in YOUR mind, maybe you AREN'T good enough to.
2007-11-16 13:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by mybusiness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This Site Might Help You.
RE:
How do you break up a couple?
I don't want to be evil, but I like this guy and he's going out with someone, what should i do?
2015-08-06 06:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Grazia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever break them apart. Get a life and don't you know what the word couples mean? Look it up in the dictionary. Get away from him and find someone Single. Make sure you look both word up cause you sound like you have know clue what they mean.
2007-11-16 12:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy wizzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You respect his choice of a companion, and you back off. Have you no moral values??? People have it hard enough without someone playing games on the side. If I were a guy and you broke up (or were able to break up) something I had going, I could NEVER trust you AT ALL. You need to back yourself up and take a chill pill. Have a bit more respect.
2007-11-16 12:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay the hell out of it girlfriend, have you ever been hurt like this before. I have and it sucks, some girl did this to me and I have never felt pain like that before. Do you really want to be like that? Hurt someone? just so you can have a guy of your choice when there are a million other ones out there you can have without hurting someone in the process? Karma baby! Watch out for her. She will bite you in the long run if you do this. Trust me on that. My ex and his new girlfriend.. well lets just say karma is having her way with them right now, and its not pretty. She lost her job, he lost his job, He is losing his rentals, she lost her truck, they fight all the time. They lost friends cause of all this. on and on and on it goes. I had nothing to do with any of there losses but I told the both of them karma would play her part and she is my Best friend right now. So take my words and don't be that person you want to be. Its no good!
2007-11-16 12:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand you ever wanting to involve yourself in someone else's relationship. You need to back off and leave him alone. It don't matter how much you like this guy, he's not for you. Yes, it is very evil to think such thoughts and there are alot of other woman out there just like you, don't care who they hurt to get what they want. Grow up and find someone who doesn't belong to someone else.
2007-11-16 12:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would start off beings friends then yall should start hangin out, by that time u should have at least started the flirtin cycle lol. don't try to come on too sttrong and don't wait too long to start, becuz then it'll be too late, he'll been fell in love and will not be interested in any other gurl. but the two main rules are don't come on too strong and try ur best not too look too suspicious lol.. in other words don't get caught.
2007-11-16 13:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by ~**ThE oNe AnD oNlY**~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the saying, What goes around comes around. Your young so I'll explain. What you do to other people, be it bad or good, will come back to you. Paying you back 10 fold! Be very careful with your decisions in life>
2007-11-16 12:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just down right mean! What is it you like about him? That he is unavailable? How would you feel if the tables were turned? Find your own!
And if he would dump this other girl for you, how could you ever trust him knowing he could turn around and dump you for someone else?
2007-11-16 12:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by onlyme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋