i like another guy... kind of.
my boyfriend doesn't show a whole lot of affection towards me which can really hurt sometimes.
but this other guy, when i'm with him i have a really huge amount of respect for him and i like him and it's a really different feeling to other guys i've been with. it's confusing me cos it's not what i'm used to.
and he's 18 and never had a girlfriend either.
but last night at this youth gathering i cried and he was the first one to say are you ok when i went and sat back down and then later on in the night he asked me if i was feeling better. and it made me feel cared about and loved whereas i don't think the guy i'm with now would have done that. but i'm just really confused at the moment. should i break up with the guy i'm with at the moment?? or what??? and do i actually like this guy other guy or not cos i've never felt like this way anbout another guy and i'm confused and a little scared and unsure too.
ANY IDEAS???
thankyou!!!!! <3
2007-11-16 11:50:53 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats a vulcan mind meld?? lol. completely irrelevant.
and also he does show affection sometimes but only when it seems that we'll take it one step futher and i'm sick of feeling like i'm being used.
2007-11-16 12:12:37 · update #1
Yeah. I think that you should be with the other guy just because he makes you feel comfortable and good about yourself. Have your boyfriend showed affection to you before? If not, then you should just do whatever you want but if he has showed you affection and stuff but stopped doing it, then you should leave him. That means that he doesn't like you the way that he did when you guys first met. Good Luck
2007-11-16 11:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really good guy. If your bf doesn't treat u the way u want him too, than regardless if the other guy likes u or not, u shouldn't be w/ him. You gotta b w/ someone u really want to b w/, u don't want to lead him on.
2007-11-16 19:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time try and take over his mind with a vulcan mind meld.
2007-11-16 19:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by the truht 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, break up with your current bf. He is obviously not providing you with what YOU NEED. Your youth is for dating, not being stuck with someone who doesn't fulfill you.
2007-11-16 19:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Eternal Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes short. You're young! Be happy! Dump the loser your going with now and go with the new guy!
2007-11-16 19:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we did this BEFore.. no dont leave your current boyfriend unless he says aolot more..
2007-11-16 20:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋