still hooking up with my ex! and both have someone else. someone help!?

Question

very confusing stuff. so myself and my ex were very serious and dated for four years from the time i was 19 to 23 same with her. we lived together for most of it so we became very close. over the past summer things became tough. we live in a college town know for its night life and she began cheating. i broke off the relationship and we moved into seperate places. we still frequently saw eachother, we had good times and then bad times, it seems that we are great with eachother when we are on our own and when any friends are involved we almost ingnore eachother. i met another girl and began dating her but in my head i couldnt get past the fact of wanting to be with my ex, so it has been 6 months now now she has a boyfriend but she comes and stays at my house a couple times a week still. i recently broke up with my girlfriend because i knew i wasnt ready to be in anything serious and didnt want to hurt her! my ex tells me she plans to break up with her BF but not yet. what should i do?

Answer 1

This seems toxic to me. See what happens if you don't contact each other for 3 months.