Here's what happened: I've been with my girlfriend for about a year. Things have been going well and I think we're getting close to marriage.
Anyway, she has a hot 18 year old daughter who lives with her. My girlfriend and I are both middle-aged.
One night I was sleepwalking, and I must have gone into the daughter's room. I woke up on the sofa, but she told me we'd had sex. I'm pretty sure this is how it happened. She thought I was awake, and she confessed that she's into me.
Last week, she told me that she's pregnant and that it's mine. I really don't know what to do here. I'm in love with her mother, but I have to deal with her daughter who is now pregnant with my daughter. The daughter hasn't told her mother, because she likes me and doesn't want her mom to get angry.
How can I convince the daughter to get an abortion? I mean, she's hot but I'm in love with her mom and I don't want to deal with this crap.
2007-11-16 11:09:10 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw, you've got yourself into some bad stuff here. Sorry but you can't convince her to get an abortion, she will have to agree with you. If she wants to keep the baby, you are just going to have to confess. Your story sounds bogus so I'm pretty sure her mom won't believe you. You will get dumped. I'm sorry but this is the consequence that you will pay for what you've done. Maybe the daughter will back your story up and the mom won't break up with you. Either way, you're going to have to tell her because the decision is up to the daughter and not up to you
2007-11-16 11:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself! Now you have to deal with the consequences of having a child by your girlfriends daughter. Also, don't try to blame your slip-up on sleep walking. I'm pretty sure you didn't accidentally have sex with the daughter you thought was so hot. And how dare you even ask the daughter to get an abortion! It's her choice! If she wants to, then that's another story (even though i don't believe in abortion). You need to do some serious praying buddy, really. And while you're at it,Tell that girlfriend that you claim to love so much you slept with her daughter. Then see how much you love her after she tears you a new one. I can't believe you even said "I don't want to deal with this crap." Well you should have though about that before went and got you girlfriends daughter knocked up. You should have thought about the consequences of cheating on your girlfriend with her DAUGHTER! I literally feel sick just knowing YOUR eyes will be reading this. You really should hang your head in shame. You should be disgraced. If I knew you, I would really look down own you. I am truly disgusted.
2007-11-16 11:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ineversaidiwasperfect 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gerry Springer??? Try the Twilight Zone!!!
Deny the child is yours until a DNA test proves otherwise. Don't be surprised if there is no child.
Deny that anything happened with the girl until proven otherwise. You sound like you remember nothing, and you're going only on the word of this little bimbo. You don't remember boffing a hot teenager at your age??? Then it didn't happen, buddy.
The daughter's motives in all of this are highly suspect, to say the least. This stinks of setup from miles away. Why? No clue - and at this point it's irrelevant. The likelihood of this being kept from your gf for much longer is nonexistent, as is your relationship with her once she finds out. Whether she believes you or the daughter is irrelevant; the relationship will be permanently poisoned for all time.
Start packing, buddy. Your days there are numbered.
BTW: If any of your story is a lie, then you are the ultimate Scum of The Earth, and you'll be very lucky if all you get is the boot and a paternity suit.
2007-11-16 11:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She'll have to work until she's 29 weeks then won't she? It's not as though you need any extra benefits just because you are pregnant... This is a UK question. All minors, those in full-time education, pregnant women and senior citizens get free Healthcare. Shame she didn't take full advantage of the free contraception too!
2016-03-18 23:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're in some deep dog poo. Be prepared to be single again.
Don't try using the sleep walk excuse...just fess up and tell your girlfriend what happened. You can't love her that much if you keep checking out her daughter and saying she's "Hot!"...then again, maybe you can.
As for convincing her daughter to get an abortion....you can "try" to talk her out of it but we all know it's the females decision on what to do when it comes to being pregnant and getting abortions.
I think you need to start praying really hard and ask God for forgiveness.
2007-11-16 11:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by simply-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Did your girlfriend buy the sleepwalking story? Pretty creative, but at some point you realize it's a bunch of bull.
If you truly believe it happened and don't remember, then your girlfriend's daughter is making trouble for you.
Regarding your other comment "dealing with this crap", if you got her pregnant be a man and deal with it.
2007-11-16 11:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by P&Rsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleepwalking defense--doesn't work! Apparently you can't be that in love with the mom to mess with her daughter. How do you know that she is pregnant and isn't just trying to trap you to get you away from her mom? IF she is pregnant then how do you know if its yours and she didn't sleep around with someone (or someones) and that person doesn't want anything to do with it and she is needing a daddy???
There are too many questions to ask, but the only thing that I can say is you screwed up---MAJORLY!!! You need to be honest with the mother and let her know what happened. If you love her so much, do you want to start a the rest of your relationship with a huge lie. She is going to be hurt and very angry and hurt at both of you but if she loves you, then she might be understanding after she kicks you ***...
2007-11-16 11:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding the abortion idea... YOU CAN'T!! She needs to decide for herself what she wants to do. Also, the baby inside of her didn't do anything wrong.. YOU DID!
You were "sleep walking"?? YEA RIGHT! And you took your clothes off in your sleep and took her clothes off in your sleep too. You are so full of CRAP! Grow up, become a man, accept responsibility for your own actions and move on with your life. If she's a sorry sort of woman, your girlfriend the mother will accept you and your girlfriend her daughter and the four of you (you, her, her daughter, and your baby) can live happily ever after. Maybe she'll even share a bed with her daughter??
2007-11-16 11:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in deep doo -doo! Your best bet is to leave town and start a new. The daughter is disgusting because she allowed you to do it and she allowed herself to get pregnat. If your girlfriend finds out your sleepwalking excuse isn't going to cut it. You both were wrong. You must not love your girlfriend all that much, just because she has a hot daughter didn't mean you had to have sex with her. Now you both have create a big mess!
2007-11-16 11:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by nicole f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, getting an abortion is not always the answer and the easiest solution.
You need to have a very personal talk with your girlfriend and let her know the situation. Maybe the daughter is just setting you up or there in this together to play a joke on your...or maybe not.
If this is the truth, your relationship will probably be non-existence with your girlfriend and she will probably not want you anywhere near her daughter so what the hell, be the man and tell the truth...hope for the best.
2007-11-16 11:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by S- D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋