when my boyfriend and i have s.e.x its always very very good! the only problem is he makes me climax very fast!,its never just the once its always more than a few times!!
is this normal for a couple to climax so much or is there a problem and should we seek help?
2007-11-16 10:51:47 · 14 answers · asked by wendy301 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wendy...
coming a lot during sex is a celebration of what you feel for the other person. You share what very few people do.
You are both very lucky people.
2007-11-16 13:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by likeakare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, let me tell you...
If you enjoy getting off multiple times, never doubt a good thing! There's nothing wrong with you, it sounds like you're just more sensitive in your "nether regions" if you will. If the sex is great go with it. Hopefully it'll be a turn on for your man to see what a great job he's doing for you! When you're about to climax, don't be quiet about it! Let him know and don't hold back! If you can let him know he's great in that department I'm sure he'll be one happy chap.
Now if you DON'T want to orgasm as much (though I can't imagine why you wouldn't want to) there are some sorts of "topical creams" you can get that will help numb your clit, making it a tad more difficult.
All in all hun I think you're a lucky gal, and I'd stick with a great thing.
2007-11-16 19:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy and enjoy it. Everyone is wired differently. Many people can only climax once or it's very difficult for them. Sounds like you got lucky to me. If you want it to last longer then have him slow down and tease you some, that will probably make it more intense. You sound normal to me.
2007-11-16 18:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your problem, that is an ambition of many. Till you feel good at body and mind, treat this as NORMAL but only for you 'two' as what is normal for one, it may be extremely abnormal for the other. No need to seek help till it is soothing to you.
2007-11-16 19:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal for every woman, but some of us are bless with that. If you think is happening to fast then try to think of other things or take control of the pace... Don't let him get you there too fast... If you still can't control reaching it too fast then try to be in shape, work your legs, abs, hips and back; that way you can have multiple but still be ready for more... that's what I do. Be happy with it, some girls don't have them ever.
2007-11-16 19:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be a problem. he pleases you and its great for you. its not a problem unless you make it one. many complain of not getting one climax. You get a couple.
2007-11-16 19:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Gearsofwarannihilator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem many people wish they could just once
2007-11-16 18:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by johnboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a question or do you just want to say we have better sex than most people?
2007-11-16 18:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by LG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
differs from person to person
so probs normal
2007-11-16 18:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Smitty2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal
2007-11-16 18:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by 1 MAROON 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋