i know him from 3yrs and he loves me a lot ...but i am kind of scared if relationship .....have been through a long term relationship.....i have no faith in guys ...but i really do like him ....but i am scared and i dnt love him so far
2007-11-16 09:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by mmmuuuaaannnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have doubts then dont have sex it does not matter how long you have known him --- if you dont have doubts then you might have sex the first time you meet or if your doubts stay you may never have sex --- its not a sacred thing BUT it is a very emotional and special act and you should only be prepared if you both care for each other and are prepared to accept the emotional responsibility (i assume you alway practice safe sex) ---- and its not something only after marriage etc etc --- it just bonds people in a very special way --- best wishes
2007-11-16 09:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with someone u don't love. For most girls, sex is tied to emotion, and I know, for me atleast, if u take the emotion out of it, then it's no fun. Then y would u want to have sex w/o fun? But if u put the intimacy back in, then when it's over, and he's done with u, or ur done with him, u will feel some sort of loss. But atleast if u loved him, then it wouldn't be a waste. But, if u think u can have sex w/o love, and be ok, then by all means, go for it....but if not, pleases don't.
2007-11-16 14:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you and that is boubtful as your the two too youthful to realy understand what that be conscious love capacity,and likely i sound like your mum and dad, yet they're ideal,and you remember dont understand lots approximately all of us in 3 months to furnish some thing away that could never be placed back ever your only a virgin as quickly as, provide it a minimum of a three hundred and sixty 5 days then you definately will understand if its ideal because of the fact if he only needs you for intercourse then once you have given in he would be long previous next day and you isn't the comparable lower back.and you will sense sorry approximately it for something of your existence.yet your persons will egg you directly to do it dont be a sheep
2016-10-17 00:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally up to you i think. Ppl even have sex with strangers.
So basically it is on wht do u think about sex.
i would say enjoy if you can. But do not hav any guilt in your heart. never do a thing If u have doubts about tht.
Best of Luck!
2007-11-16 22:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hey some people have had sex the first time they met someone..soo hey do what makes you feel right...i mean u have known the guy for a few years now..i hope u trust him and love him....
2007-11-16 12:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by shawanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes
if you do not love him yet then no
general consus is 8-12 months in a relationship b4 sex
2007-11-16 09:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Smitty2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey 3months or 3 yrs , in heading u wrote 3 month and in detail u wrote 3 yrs ..
and it is depends up to u if u truth him , then do it , if not truth him then dont do that
all the best
bye
tC
2007-11-16 20:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are both ready and love each other then go for it as long as you happy with it then i don't see with a problem with it as long as your both ready then go 4 it
2007-11-16 09:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by shortie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not.
2007-11-16 09:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. don't if u don't wanna
2007-11-16 22:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋