My bf and i had separated for a week and during the weekend his friends dragged him to go to the carnival and when he went one of his friends from 2nd grade(girl) was there and ask her to get on a ride with him and she went with him.After that all he was talking about was her and he would also talk to her when he'd see her.Then the week past and we got back together there was a lot of rumors about that night everybody in a class that they both have(but in different periods)are talking about it and one person told my friend and she told me that they got on more than one ride together and i was so shocked that i told him and we sort of broke up for awhile and i asked him to tell me the truth about that night and he told me that they got on several rides and nothing else.I believed him and didn't believe him at the same time cause he told me like a week later.Then on Wednesday he said hi to her and it got me sort of uncomfortable because i don't want anything bad to happen between us
2007-11-16 08:50:16 · 18 answers · asked by cgyr12506 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him that i didn't want him talking to her because of what had happend and didn't want anything to happen
2007-11-16 08:52:55 · update #1
We are together and we have talked about it. it's not really the part that he says hi to her it's just what happend at the carnival
2007-11-16 08:55:38 · update #2
Its good that your jealous acctually... it shows how much you love him.
Tell him how u feel, remind him that u love him and tell him that u dont want any problems because of the other girl.
2007-11-16 08:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by hyperizzzed_maniac 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best way to make something bad happen between the too of you is for you to continue to be paronoid of the situation, and insecure. What's in a ride at a carnival but some innocent fun. Maybe you should have been the on to get on that ride with him, but you need to take the initiative if you really want this to work. It's you that he got back together with right?? Also you were seperated at the time, sorry to say luv, but life does go on!! I would be talking quite a bit about a friend from that long ago also, for, it is amazing to keep a friendship for so long, and besides, that is plenty of time for him to have been with her if that was what he wanted.Lighten up girl!! live life in a more happy and comfortable sort of way, Trust yourself and your man!!! GOOD LUCK TO YA!!!
2007-11-16 17:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by lpie2 l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so the first thing you have to ask yourself is if you trust him. Then you need to weigh in the fact that he is a guy and you guys were split up and all he did was get on some rides with the girl. You have to remember that these two have been friends for a long time and those kinds of relationships don't just stop. I know from personal experience. So don't fret too much just cause they are friends! It doesn't really sound like you have to worry too much!
Hope that helps!!
2007-11-16 16:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys were broken up-how was he supposed to know you would get back together? If you keep pressuring him you will push him away for sure. You sound rather young. You will find out soon enough that you can't pressure him into staying with you if he would rather be with someone else. You are not married. This is the time of your life that you both should be getting to know all kinds of people and not be tied to just one person.
2007-11-16 16:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you're uncomfortable with the situation. Either you trust him or you don't. If you really think something happened between those two, drop him and tell him why. Be prepared to explain your reasons. It's easy to deceive ourselves until we have to explain our reasoning. If you trust him, let it go. You'll only put ideas in his head if you don't. You do need to assess yourself honestly. You sound insecure, jealous, and not too mature, but everyone has been there, and some have outgrown it. I wish you well, and good luck.
2007-11-16 17:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relax more and understand that your guy WILL have friends who are girls it doesn't mean that he wants to get with all of them! If you're paranoid you could end up losing him over a few rides and a "hi"! Embrace her as a friend and trust him. Especially if you were on a break there's nothing wrong with going on some rides! So yeh trust him! xxx
2007-11-16 16:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh grow up. You cant get mad if he goes on a ride with another female when yall was broken up. What do you really have to be mad at? He wasnt with you at the time. Just breath easy and be glad that he didnt go on a different type of ride with her!
2007-11-16 17:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Scooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. Why don't you start talking to some of your male friends too. Make him a little jealous. And really, don't let him think you're jealous or concerned because that puts up a red light.
2007-11-16 16:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie Smith 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he told you the truth, so he seems like a nice guy. You can't be jealous if he says "hi" to girls, that will only drive him away. if you trust him then you shouldn't have to worry that anything bad would happen, but if you don't trust him then why are you with him?
2007-11-16 16:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should be able to trust him and you guys should go into detail of what happend. who knows you might get the truth out of it.
2007-11-16 16:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋