Hello, I am really shy guy, Girls keep looking at me. but i usually dont smile when i look at them but girls also dont smile. I want to talk to my neibourhood girl. she also looks at me. she knows my name and my background. where should i start? Give me some tips !! Thanks in advance....
2007-11-16 07:18:40 · 15 answers · asked by vijaiatul22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile at her and if she smiles back, say hi - and she'll say hi back! take it from there....... good luck, It's not easy when you're shy - I know, but she may be shy too... and if you don't smile at her, she'll start thinking you're the weird guy in the neighborhood!!
good luck!
2007-11-16 07:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by wfhlembo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, just stop being shy. You are wasting time and life.
When you catch a girl looking at you make eye contact for a "second" and look away "slowly". That lets her know you saw her.
Then carefully try to re-establish eye contact a second time. Look her in the eye again for a few seconds and give her a very slight smile as you turn away.
Make eye contact a third time and smile directly at her. If she smiles back get off your butt and go over and introduce yourself.
It is a game and an old one at that. Think of it like this. If you approach a girl every now and then and get shot down that is normal. The more you approach the better your odds. If you approach a lot of girls all the time one or two are bound to respond to your liking.
Do you know what to say when you approach her?
2007-11-16 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Thinkaboutit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a (little low esteem) when it comes to females.
They all dont bite,some are very pleasant and intelligent.
But beware! the fairer sex is very manipulative.
Without putting you off , try smileing at her and saying hello(at least three times)(not necessarialy on the same day) do not be put of.
If after the third time she does not reciprocate then she is not intrested.(or so you would assume)
Then open up to other females,but again be sure you both have something in common.
P.S --Keep smileing and saying hello.
Remember ,if you kick a football to someone,they do two things , either kick it back to you or leave it alone.
Good Luck.
2007-11-16 15:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to make a little smile. Not a big, toothy grin or tight lips but a polite little smile. Practice in the mirror to see how you look.
If your neighborhood is a safe place to walk, then invite her to join you on a walk. "Hi! I've seen you around and I'm curious about you. Can we go for a walk and talk or something?"
Get her talking about herself - what does she like to do for fun? where is she from originally? what's her family like? what's her favorite food/color/animal?
You'll be glad to know this stuff later...
2007-11-16 15:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her what?
Just say hi. That's the hardest part. Get a dog, and walk it, and walk by her house or something. If she has anything in common, start from there. Like "Hey, I saw you had *** in your backpack/or a shirt she wore or SOMETHING."
Just starting conversation will be the hardest, after that, it will be fine. Smile, then say hi, and wait for her to start the convo.
2007-11-16 15:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you're shy, but speak with her with a confidence in your voice. A confidence like, "I know you think I'm hot." Girls like that in a guy. Don't be ARROGANT though. There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. And if she's feeling into you...capitalize on that. Drive her crazy with your confidence. Talk to her with no reservation.
2007-11-16 15:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tony H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sounds like you dont have any trouble with girls liking you so whats the problem just find one you like and talk about what you like to do and what she likes to do or ask her to go shoot pool or basketball or ask her to a football game at your school ya know just simething to break the ice or start with whos your fave singer i know it sounds lame but ya gotta start somewhere
2007-11-16 15:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by child4jc74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to try starting by the simple things.
1st : Say hi! to her whenever you can
2nd: Try to talk to her / get to know her
3rd: Invite her to places
4rd: If you like her ask her out and dont be scared about it.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-16 15:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,first if they look at u then they are curious, so u look at them and smile, then if they are still looking at you, then go up to her and introduce urself and ask her if she wants to get a dring at the local cafe then take it from there my good man
2007-11-16 15:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who makes a good eye contact with you?
2007-11-16 15:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋