I have been in a relationship for 4.5 years. I think that we will get married sometime soon, but I am cautious because he was a virgin when we got together. I am afraid that his curiosity will someday get the best of him and cause him to cheat. What are the chances of our relationship surviving?
2007-11-16 07:06:06 · 9 answers · asked by bananie83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mine is surviving under similar circumstances. Its been a long time, if he hasn't strayed yet then you must be doing something right. Don't let your curiosity makes him curious. Treat him the same and you won't have to worry about it
2007-11-16 07:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you have been together for 4.5 years then I feel you have a good chance of staying together. I think he's completely satisfied with you and you alone. Enjoy the relationship and keep open the lines of communication so you can be honest with each other.
2007-11-16 07:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by cookin_spa_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's the thing, every man nobody how many girls he has been with, is curious about sleeping with other women he hasn't had sex with before. It is something in male programming that there will always be a part of us that seeks out variety in sex. Hell, even Hugh Hefner is still curious about sleeping with other women.
Fortunately, men also have great imaginations as well (roleplaying also apparently helps in this regard). So it actually isn't as difficult to suppress this urge as one might think as long as there is a regular supply of sex.
So yes, he will be curious about sleeping with other women, but he won't be unique in his curiousity despite his previous virginity, and there is no particular reason for him to act on it. If your really worried about it though, make sure he has a really good bachelor party.
2007-11-16 07:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your relationship can survive. There's much more to a relationship than sex. Besides when you're much older and can't have sex, you will still have a solid relationship. So you see, you've already gotten 4.5 years invested into a solid relationship. Good luck. 2D
2007-11-16 07:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. My boyfriend and I are BOTH virgins, and BOTH waiting until we get married. We've been together over two years. God intended people to only be with one other person...i'd be HAPPY if I were you.
2007-11-16 07:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that he is a virgin still.Thats more rare than a female virgin.I think if he was able to wait for you I'm sure he will be able to stay faithful.
2007-11-16 07:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you manifest, you create. You already have your doubts on him, what good is it to be in this relationship, when there is no trust?
2007-11-16 07:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm if he was a virgin before you got together dont you thinkthat he would have banged a few girls before hand???
you dont have anything to worry about...
2007-11-16 07:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it will survive . . he's with you and if he gets curious why would he turn to someone else????
2007-11-16 07:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by *ME* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋