I was told on sunday that my mom has cancer. I can not go near here because i have a cold. I live at a boarding school so i cannot spend alot of time with her, they told me that she has a 90% of reovering but they said nothing about remission, I feel very alone what should I do?( i am in high school)
2007-11-16 06:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by Darkangel16 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
my mother is a single mother, and i have no siblings.
2007-11-18 10:03:21 · update #1
Write lots of letters to your Mom by hand! She may not have access or the physical strength/ability to be at a computer to access the internet and email. Make lots of phone calls to her even if it's only a brief chat! Talk to your Dad or whoever about her progress; keep in constant contact. 90% chance of recovery means she has an excellent chance at a full recovery, meaning that the cancer will be completely "gone." Whereas remission means there's a chance it will come back. The doctors do not usually give a greater percentage than 90% when speaking of full recovery -- just know that this is an excellent prognosis for your Mom.
Very important: You should talk to a counselor at your school on a regular basis -- believe me, that will help you deal with this difficult situation.
When you're no longer sick with a cold, visit your Mom as often as you can.
My prayers will be with her and with you.
2007-11-16 07:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your mom. Ask your family the questions that you have. Is there a counselor at your school? Go talk to this person about your fears and feelings. When you get well enough, go home to visit. You and your mother need this.
2007-11-17 03:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her over the phone and Internet.
I am so sorry for your family situation.
Talk to older adults in the school and express your feelings. They may know more about it than you think. That is great they gave her such a high recovery rate. It usually means she caught it in time. Good luck and take care.
2007-11-16 06:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Research the type of cancer that she has and educate yourself. Not knowing is why a lot of our fears get out of control. Set time aside to talk to her on the phone so that she knows that you want to support her and be there for her even though you have to physcially stay away.
2007-11-16 06:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to provide you information in this based on CA law, i'm uncertain on TX. in the adventure that your mom had coverage from her previous company, the coverage agency will deliver her a letter affirming that she exchange into lined from X-date - X-date. she would be able back onto your dad's plan interior 30 days of dropping her previous coverage with out pre-present barriers utilized. there's a time decrease in this (she would have the capacity to't be with out coverage for a particular time - it particularly is set via state) in the adventure that your dad is at a great agency, he needs to speak to the Human materials branch who would be waiting to furnish him each and every of the information he needs to determine your mom is being dealt with. good luck and that i desire each and every thing works out on your loved ones.
2016-10-02 12:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be calm...And wait for the cancer to pass ..and wait for your cold to end...Once everything is clear go and get some alternative medicine to try to kill off anything that is left...I suggest cesium chloride with DMSO....Just do it for about 2 weeks..This will help her alot...But, if you are afraid of the big names...Just go to Stop and shop and get some fresh aloe vera...Put it in a blender with vanilla ice cream..If she takes this for a couple times a week for about a week or two, it should kill anything thats left..I must warn you that it will cause her to go potty ...But, its for the better...Stay strong....
2007-11-16 15:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to people.
Talk to your mom.
Talk to your dad & other family.
Talk to your closest friends.
Talk to a counselor @ school, if you want. If you are lonely, then you need the support of your social connections.
Good Luck!
;-)
2007-11-16 07:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found out a week ago that my dad has cancer. Stay strong.
2007-11-16 07:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by armwrestlemania 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at times its hard
write her letters its much more personal
then get a small group of friends togather and try to get your mind off of things
hopefully she will be fine
I lost many relatives to cancer
just get your mind off of things by trying new things or having fun if you can
2007-11-16 06:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can always talk to god he's there for you. but here advise force on school and your grades she'll be ok shes want you to gradute high school
2007-11-16 06:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkle♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋