Was this just because she wanted to be nice and polite about it?
She also talks about how she still loves her recent ex boyfriend and how she still wants to be with him....but why would she say that she is sorry that she didn't pick me.....does she have any feelings towards me?
I was never with her.....she always rejected me and never liked me in that way....but does she now?
2007-11-16 06:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She made it clear when I had a crush on her that she didn't like me.
2007-11-16 06:57:52 · update #1
"Of all sad words of tongue or pen,
the saddest, these "It might have been".
I don't know how old you and she are, but there are certain times of our lives when we look back and think or say things like this. Also certain situations - like when we have been let down by someone untrustworthy, and think of people who we rejected, because we thought they were being boring/predictable - in other words trustworthy ! Sounds like she is on the rebound - and is looking for a bit of security and reassurance. Ideally you should wait until she is not so emotional - she could hurt you as she is still emotionally raw. Otherwise - if you are feeling brave you could sit and have a sensible open ended chat about it and analyse her feelings. Be prepared for heartbreak if you do get together - but what the heck - for you it may be worth the risk. You sound quite sensible. If you want to make a go of it - go for it, but be honest, ask questions, and be prepared to back off if you don't like the answers you get. You are a good person who deserves to be loved for yourself - not just as a fallback. Good luck - whatever you decide.
2007-11-16 06:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Drudgesquad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's very very very confused right now. How long were she and her ex together? if it was awhile then usually people will still have feelings for their ex for a while after things have ended, they can still like new people though. She probably realized that he's no good for her and that you were a much better choice, but still has those feelings even though she probably doesn't want them right now. Just take it as a compliment and move on. She's a very confused girl right now and needs some time with herself
2007-11-16 06:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can mean two things, she just feels sorry for you or she now changed her mind and wants to be with you. In this case she just feels sorry for you. Very retarded, but true. She does not have the kind of feelings you want her to have, nor does she like you the way you would want her too. She sounds pretty selfish to me, you should just forget the fact that she used to be your crush and move on. Sorry, but hey look on the bright side, at least your not waisting your time with her and you can look for someone else!
Good Luck!
2007-11-16 06:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by spring 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say no she doesnt like you.... shes saying that because at the end she got her by her boyfriend. She thinks if she would have picked u then .. she wouldnt have had her heart broken...... but there is good news lol.. her saying that means.. she kinda liked u .. but she wasnt sure.. so its not like she never liked u..... right now i think she is just feeling realy heartbroken... and she wants him back.. all u can do is just be there for her.. shell eventually get over him
2007-11-16 06:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly that she means because i have felt that way about a guy a long time ago....that statement means that she had interest in both of you guys (even if you thought she didnt like you) but she decided to show the other guy more interest because he had more of the qualities that she wanted in a guy....since her and the guy are now broken up she is not wondering if it would have been better with you maybe because she sees now what she didnt see in you before...i really hope you understand...
this girl is not playing mind games with you....maybe she still does have feelisngs for you or new feelings are arising....
2007-11-16 06:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by ebony_316 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she was not treated well in her last relationship or the guy was a jerk and she realizes you are a descent guy and regrets not choosing you. If you are both single and she now has the opportunity to be with you then you will be together. Otherwise, she sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and you should move on.
2007-11-16 06:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's playing mind games with you. Women are great at these games. The best way to call her out on it, is this: tell her that actions speak louder than words. If she actually puts her money where her mouth is, then you're golden. If not, then you just proved that she was playing games with you. It's a sure-fire way to verify.
Take care and be well...
2007-11-16 06:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she sounds like a sociopath who says things and doesn't ever consider how it makes someone else feel. If she loved you, she would not reject you. She doesn't want you. She is toying with your feelings. It would be much better for you if you walked away and let someone else be crushed by her, save yourself while you can.
2007-11-16 06:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's regreting picking someone else other than yourself. She also knows your an easy target to get with.
2007-11-16 06:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yes she likes you or she's going through rebound. But I am not her so your going to have to ask her if you really want to know the truth.
2007-11-16 06:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by patience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋